I really am looking for my best friend, someone to spend time with, explore with, enjoy what life has to offer. I want security in my best friend and someone who does not judge me for who I am, but embraces my idiosyncrasies. I believe that 3 things are required to make a relationship work: 1) Friendship 2) Partnership 3) Lovers. You have to be good at all three, you can be great at two and good at one, or vice versa, but you must be good at all three-there has to be a balance of friendship (loyalty), partnership (respect) and lovers (yes, lovers).
I do eventually want to find my husband, that is my ultimate goal, so if you are not interested in marriage, or are already married or attached in anyway or only looking for sex right away, please don't contact me.
I'm usually fairly busy on the weekends, I like to update my house, clean, do yard work, clean my car, and just basically keep up on the things that need to get done. I am able to work from home most days, which is a very nice life/work balance.
I kickbox nearly every night when I'm not coaching U12 and U7 coed soccer teams, which is nearly every night in the Spring and Fall. In the summer, I love to go to Raccoon River, which is near my home and hang out with my kids. I usually pick one major project to get done each year in my house, last year it was painting the outside and updating my kitchen. This year, I would like to paint my living room and give the outside of the house another coat.
This year, my goal is to make a trip to Walt Disney-which is a life long dream of mine. I'm trying to "empty" my bucket-which includes skydiving (some day) and traveling more. I took my kids to St. Louis (Arch) and Memphis last year-yep, I drove 13 hours by myself and my two kids so I could see Elvis! I love Elvis. I won a trip through work to Phoenix Arizona for April this year and plan on trying to take my kids so we can see the Grand Canyon as that is also on my list.
If you are up for doing more and being more, I'd like to come a long for the ride :)