I try to look for the goodness I see during the day. My children, Mary-22, Angelina-8 & nick-7 are quite animated & often make me smile & laugh. They are the light of my laugh & my proudest accomplishment. I dont have them w me everyday so my solution was my puppy, Emmy. It would wonderful to find someone to talk & do "adult" things with. I would rather be alone then w someone I didnt connect w. What Im trying to say is Im comfortable w myself & Im not desperate. I would be very open to the right guy, though,