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41 year old woman
Thousand Oaks, California, United States

Seeking:
men 30-50
Within:
500 Miles of Westlake Village, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Educating young kids for a decade has shined a light on what's real, and given me great perspective. If you know anything about seven and eight year olds, you know you can't get by on empty promises, nor breaking the rules, especially the ones you've set. ;) You have to learn to laugh at yourself, but not at others (unless you know them real well, then it's okay, of course.) And I have become extremely flexible in my daily life, since nothing really ever goes exactly as planned, or even comes close some days, weeks... years! But I'm okay with that, it can be fun wingin' it!

I used to think my career defined me, it's not true. We are so much more than our jobs. There can be some pretty heartless teachers. And I've met some lawyers bursting with integrity... well, I haven't really met any yet, but I'm sure they exist!! My humor can be sarcastic, I love to banter, and can be feisty at times. As I have often heard other's say on here, I am honest, "almost to a fault." In new social situations, I can hold my own. I don't need anyone worrying about me constantly, but a check in every once in a while is nice.

I think I'm a natural introvert. So that would make me an "extroverted introvert."

Spiritually, I am inspired by nature.. Actually, my "church" would be the valley floor of Yosemite. Or the beautiful pristine mountains of Lake Tahoe. I do believe that I am part of something far bigger than I could ever imagine. Life is a mystery, and it's okay not to know everything. That's what makes life so facsinating and unpredictable ... and so worth living! Even on those days you just want to crawl back under the covers. Most of my mornings can be pretty foggy, though, until I have my caffeine fix.

Keeping myself mentally and physically healthy is always going to be a big part of my life. I never want to stop learning and I'll never stop asking questions. And I'll usually try anything once. (Except jumping out of a plane... sorry, guys!) I would love to find someone who would take a moonlit hike with me on the spur of the moment. Or teach me how to scuba dive...or better yet, learn with me!

I love the ocean, I love being on a sailboat, I love laying on the warm sand after snorkeling in warm tropical waters. I even love camping if we have fresh water and at least one bathroom with plumbing? Basically, I love doing anything outdoors as long as I am not freezing my a** off. Yes, I am a girl. And I get cold. Most nights you can expect to feel freezing feet on yours under the covers!

Some of my favorite moments are those I least expect. I'm afraid of hights, but I will never forget the experience of repelling off of a huge rock and seeing hundreds of joshua trees in a completely different perspective...their surreal shadows at sunset surrounding me at every angle!

I read a quote recently in a book that really stuck with me: “My idea of a good [man] would be one I loved to look at, not because another found [him] lovely, but because his unique characteristics spoke to me.” So I need to feel that chemistry. And I can only feel that if I meet you in person. Eye contact and an infectious laugh is very sexy.

A friend told me a great analogy that describes what I think most of us are looking for in our partner: When life becomes white-water rapids, I want a man beside me in the boat. I won't settle for anyone who just waves to me from the shore, or worse, actually stirs up those waters! I thought the visual of this analogy was hilarious, but probably because it is tragically true in a lot of relationships.

I want to enjoy my life with someone I adore, who adores me, and who I have that inexplicable chemistry with...that feeling of melting everytime we kiss...the goosebumps... the immediate calmness and safety I feel from just being in his arms. Yeah, I'm a hopeless romantic.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Basketball, Dancing, Inline skating, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I have a beautiful gray cat, sweet as can be, named after Charlotte in the children's book, Charlotte's Web.

Political views:
Non-conformist
Sign:
Cancer
College:
California State University, Sacramento, Sacramento, CA
For fun:

Dancing(swing, country, want to learn salsa), hiking, reading(historical fiction, paranormal romance-yes, I confess, I have a weakness for vampires, maybe because I like my neck nibbled on?)... getting together with friends, board games, road trips

Favorite hot spots:

I have many friends in No Cal, so I like taking road trips up the coast...but don't like driving long distances by myself. I love Yosemite, Bryce Canyon, Lake Tahoe, Scotland, Brittish castles, Hawaii, my backyard.

Favorite things:

The sun on my skin, seat warmers!, pilates, aerobic sweating and the high afterwards, red velvet cheesecake, coffee, spooning, uncontrolable laughter, thunder storms, sailing, gentle first kisses, strong hands, foot rubs, hugs, hugs, and more hugs

Last read:

Outlander, Dragonfly in Amber, Voyager, Drums of Autumn (Diana Gabaldon), Fiery Cross, a People magazine.... taking a break from self-help books

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'8" (203cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference

Elementary teacher, though I am thinking of teaching at the high schools level...now that I finally look older than they do!! I would love to teach Biology and/or PE. Taking temporary time off right now.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I am mostly Scots/ English (my dad is a 1st generation Scot) and the rest of me is French (my grandfather is a 1st generation Frenchman.) My grandfather's first language was French. I am very curious about my ancestry and would love to learn more.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Spiritual but not religious, Other

I am inspired spiritually by being out in nature more than anywhere else. I've never felt closer to a "higher power" than when walking peacefully in the nearby mountains right about the time the sun sets or rises.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have two Bachelor's (Biology and Physical Ed:Pre-therapy) from Sacramento State, CA. I received my teaching credential from UC Davis, and my (Master's in Education) from Azusa Pacific.

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