When my first daughter was born (she's now almost 10), I didn't think it was possible to love anyone more than I loved her. After the birth of my second daughter (just turned 7), I was pleasantly surprised to find that my heart grew and allowed me to love them both immensely and in extraordinarily different ways. I mention this for two reasons: 1) My daughters are the best accomplishment of my life. They are, clearly, not going anywhere and will always be involved in every life decision I make (I am very happy with the way they are being raised right now-shared custody). And, after some time, I would want to share that with a very special, loving person. 2) I have proven that there is definitely room for more love in my life (for a special woman and, possibly, more children).
I am a very simple man. All I want is HAPPINESS. Of course, I've yearned for the most amazing meals, the best seats at a concert, constant visits to Paris whenever I want, etc. But, i've come to realize that I want these things because they make me HAPPY. I am intensely passionate about many things that are very important to me. And, I am passionately intense about a few things that not enough people care about. Occasionally, when I'm home alone, I blast my playlist, singing and dancing around the room imagining that I'm my favorite performers. Sometimes,
I do this in my underwear. In those cases, I am Frank Sinatra. But I want and do all these things because they make me...HAPPY! I am looking for a woman who makes me HAPPY. I'm not sure what she looks like, how often she works out or whether she loves cats or dogs. I am certain that my ideal mate will make me nervous at first (and hopefully it won't show). She will also feel the same way about me. I love a challenge but I don't want to have to convince someone of my awesome value. (And, I don't have the time for any hot, sexy "friends" that might eventually like me. I'm too old to start some epic When Harry Met Sally unrequited love journey) I want you to know immediately when we meet each other. Basically, I really want you to be the woman to stand by my side at the wishing fountain simply wishing for HAPPINESS. And, I know you're out there somewhere.
