I was born and raised in China, came to the US about 15 years ago, and have been living in Missouri ever since. I have two beautiful children - a son and a daughter, and a job that I enjoy, for the most part, to be honest. If I was asked years ago what I would look for in a relationship, I could fill up the whole box here. After a failed marriage, I think today I know better what it takes to have a successful relationship with the man of my life. Rather than name what I am looking for, I will follow how I feel.