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42 year old woman
Portsmouth, New Hampshire, United States

Seeking:
men 35-47
Within:
100 Miles of Rye Beach, New Hampshire, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I'd like to date an active man, whatever you do to keep active is cool. Walking is good. Reading a book while walking along is quite delightful and easier than you think. If you're worried about safety, well, don't be.

In fact, please be worried about very little.

Life moves too quickly and I value openness, honesty and transparency. No BS, if you please.



If you're a super cute, sweet, SINGLE and thoughtful man who's a bit daring and [proportionately] coordinated, please shoot me an email.

You could perhaps address one of the following (or both):

What do you like best about yourself? or What trip would you most like to take?

(I like my legs best and Chicago for a deep dish pizza tour) Please feel free to make up your own thing to tell me about if you want. Random bits of data can be amusing (if we're not a match) and informative (especially if you're a cute, sweet, SINGLE, and thoughtful man who's a bit daring and [proportionately] coordinated).


I have two boys, work and have hobbies.

My life can't, by design, be consumed by a relationship, but, it can augment it in a unique and special way . . . working gradually on a relationship with a man who is fun(ny) and smart and a good kisser might be pretty amazing.


Important preface: Chocolate chip cookies pair well with Guinness



It'd be lovely to find a man who is relaxed enough to settle in for a bit and see what happens with us.

A cool guy would find me to be an active, adventurous, inquisitive, solo woman who has a pretty realistic view of how much of a catch she really is. Ha. I'm not going to tell you I'm ALL THAT. My ego has but a whisper.



You'll be my catch, but, it's not required that you think you're one ahead of time.


One of you reminded me how important it is that your mother thinks her boy is a cutie...I agree! As I think both my boys are incredible cuties! Your dad can think you're a cutie, too. I'll accept all well charted data.



When there's an opportunity to go fast on the bike, I will.



Will you go fast when it's time?



And then leisurely, too?


I rode my bike - the bluebird - around Manhattan last August. It's downhill to Wall Street - a Starbucks in hand and coasting through the village was easily one of the most pleasurable stretches of road riding I've done in a long while. I'm planning another bike ride around Manhattan for this coming summer so if anyone has any clever/enjoyable travel ideas, I'll gather them up in my head and sort through them.


---Describing myself, or, attempting to do that in an enticing way (LOL), probably didn't work very well.

---Describing the kind of man I'm looking for was/is kind of challenging, too, and I probably didn't do that very well either.


Howevahhh

Meeting you will be fun for me whether we're a match or not. (Within each of you are qualities that I think are pretty cool, but, mainly I need a confident guy whose well deserved ego is in check)

Interests:
Alumni connections, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Skiing
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Walking, shopping, dining, swimming, relaxing, paddleboarding, kayaking, beer tasting, biking, curling up, cuddling, talking. I'm a big kid who is brave and happy and spontaneous. I love the beach, hot days, lots of sun, a good tan and big waves.

Favorite hot spots:

Beaches. Snowy landscapes. Farms. Cities. Rivers. Deserts. Any place that serves a cold IPA. Manhattan, Boston, Portland, Rye Beach. Baseball games. Diners and fine dining. Situations where opposites are juxtaposed.

Favorite things:

Sunlight sparkling off the water, catching a falling leaf, a campfire in the yard, ice to skate, snow to ski, wheels to roll, a foot strike, an even stride, Monet, sculpture, Dooney and Bourke, romance, art, fine leather, metallurgy, a blue heron.

Last read:

Bike Snob NYC's books and blog; Gladwell's three; French Revolutions by Tim Moore; Vogue, Rolling Stone, bank stuff

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Light brown
Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Travel / Hospitality / Transportation
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I work hard and love my job and feel accomplished when I'm through.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Black / African descent, White / Caucasian

I've learned there was a gal on the Mayflower with my name, first and last. If I was big into reincarnation, then, yup, in my past life, I made a significant pilgrimage across the pond.

Faith:
Other
Agnostic, Atheist, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

250 characters is not soapbox enough for me to organize many thoughts of spirituality and religion. What a poor subject to put in a box, literally! I guess I'll reserve really tackling this matter until our 37th date.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I studied post modern philosophy in college. Exploring image philosophy and technology.

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