I am a very loyal person, but you have to earn it first. I love my friends (and family), and my pets because they bring such joy to my life. I even like my job (well, most of the time!) I am looking for someone that is grateful for the blessings in their lives and mature enough to handle all the other "stuff" that just inevitably happens! If you have children, please do your part to take care of them. I have known some men who have created lives in the form of their children, but do not feel anything but financially responsible (if even that) in taking care of them. Parenthood is not just throwing money at your ex in the form of child support, it's being involved with them; and, and making sure they feel loved and important! (which they need first and foremost!) I have always wanted to have children, but it was just not God's will for me to do so. It broke my heart for the longest time; but, I've come to realize there are a lot of children out there who need me in some form or fashion, so, I do whatever it is I feel "led" to do...if that makes any sense (!?) So, obviously, I am looking for a man who is a Christian (I don't mean a bible-thumping jackass), but a man who does the right thing because he -wants- to do the right thing, even when it's tough, it would be easier if he didn't, and it just plain sucks!!
I also hope to find someone who is athletic and likes to go out and have fun; but can also enjoy a night at home on the couch with me and the Netflix. Or, during football season, watching the games (pro and college) with me. Please have a good sense of humor- there's already more than enough mean people in the world! Oh, and also, you must be able to handle the awesome days of hair bands, i.e, Motley Crue, Cinderella, Skid Row, Metallica, Ratt, etc. I admit I still love the early 90's grunge too; so if you can't deal with the above, then I would definitely annoy you *lol* I also like Pantera, White Zombie (but not a lot of his stuff on his own- Rob Zombie, unfortunately), Tool, etc. I seem to constantly attract musicians of some form or fashion- mostly guitar players, lead singers, an occasional bass player and even drummer. I don't know why I seem to get so many guitar players, but I am not complaining! I used to be a dancer- started dance at 9 years old with modern jazz classes, etc., and never really quite stopped- I still take classes. I used to dream about being a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader, but unfortunately, Iife did not give me a chance to go down that pathway. So, obviously, I keep myself up- but, I do it for me, not to get a guy. I like to do the things I do, and the rewards on the outside are just the icing on the cake :) So please, again, I expect a guy to do the same, and not for a woman, like me, but out of respect for -himself-. don't care how old you are- you can do some kind of physical fitness activity and take some time to look decent, otherwise be sure you make good money cause you wont get a woman otherwise- you definitely won't get me regardless cause I really don't care how much money you have. I earn enough to take care of myself.
Okay, that's enough, Ive probably scared away about 90 percent of you out there- but, hey, this is me and this is who I am looking for :)
