I saw a commercial for match.com that said people on here are 3x more likely than people who aren't to meet someone? Really? Only 3x more likely? I guess I better keep trying to meet someone at the grocery store too.
I am proud to say I have my life in order and would love to meet someone that can say the same. I am not looking for a Sugar Daddy nor a Baby Daddy. I am financially secure and my kids already have a good father. I have a great job, no debt, retirement funds which I max every year and own my home. I share that only to give you some understanding of my priorities not to gloat.
I am not looking to rush into anything and am not willing to settle. l have been single long enough to know what I want and am secure in my independence. Having said that I would love to find the man that drives me crazy with a single look or a secret caress. The man that I want to go to bed with every night and wake up with every morning. Someone who accepts my imperfections and maybe even finds them endearing. I want to connect physically as well as emotionally. I want someone with whom I have an instant physical chemistry so strong that it makes me weak in the knees. But also so mentally connected that we seem to be able to finish each others thoughts. Honesty is the cornerstone of a relationship with me.
My kids are the most important thing in the world to me and therefore a kid commonality is important or at least someone who likes children and understands their importance in my life. Age is also important, I am not looking for a significantly older man. I want someone to grow old with not someone that makes me feel old.
I am a very hard worker whether it is for my job or in my personal life. It is important for me to meet someone who is equally driven but also someone who will always put their family first. I am attracted to a man who knows his way around a tool bench and would rather fix it himself than hire it done. Despite my independence I also am attracted to a "take charge" type personality.
My work is really serious and high stress so I like to relax and just have fun outside of work. I can easily laugh at myself and try not to take things too seriously. I am sarcastic and not easily offended. I love to cook and am told I am pretty good at it. I am an open book, I am not into games or drama. Ask me anything and I will give you an honest answer.
I love to travel anywhere there is water, beaches or beautiful scenery. My motto for any road trip is, "There are no wrong turns, just a different view."I am from Eastern Canada so like to travel to Canada every year or two especially in the summer to spend part of the vacation lounging on the beach. Hawaii and Florida are also great spots for family fun. I would like to meet someone who also likes to travel whether it is quick day trips or once in a lifetime trips half way around the world.
I like hiking, camping, biking, roller blading, swimming, playing cards, sight seeing, you name it. I will try just about anything once but I can't guarantee I wont scream while doing it (paragliding in Hawaii). I would like to meet someone who likes to be active and try new things. My work is an 8-10 hour adrenaline rush every day so I really dont need extreme hobbies outside of that. I can find a lot of enjoyment out of every day activities if they are shared with the right person.