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36 year old woman
New Bern, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
men 30-40
Within:
50 Miles of New Bern, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Trying to describe who I am to someone I have yet to establish a connection with is a daunting task. I'm at a point in my life where games and guesses are not part of the equation. So, I will provide the basics and we can go from there.

Yes, I am in the process of a divorce but that does not mean I am "damaged goods" or not worthy of respect or love from someone who has yet to walk down the same path. It simply means that there were circumstances within the environment that were not conducive to my happiness and rather than forcing something, I am maintaining hope there is a perfect match for me out in the world.

Yes, I am a mother of two amazing, smart and adorable boys who I love dearly but are not my entire being in the world. I am also an individual, a woman, a professional and love having a life outside of my motherly duties. I need that balance in my life so if you are searching for a housewife who devotes every living moment to the happiness of everyone else, move along because I have played that role for 10 years and it's not the role for me. However, as a single mother, my children are my priority in the sense of protection and safety so that part of my life will remain closed until I feel confident you are understanding of this, in every way. What I am not looking for is a father for my children - they already have one and they have amazing relationships that I do not want replaced by any other person. If you cannot accept that, keep moving.

I have grown confident in who I have become and whomever is my partner, must not be intimidated by this at all. I have made mistakes, learned and grown from the hard times in my life and quite frankly, I love who I am - flaws and all. If you are searching for perfection, keep moving and as some brief advice, perfection doesn't exist. Everybody has flaws.

I will absolutely not tolerate verbal, physical or emotional aggression/abuse at any time, for any reason. Disagreements happen, it's life, but I will not subject myself to someone who is incapable of respecting a woman. I have experienced first hand the power of cruel words and I refuse to place myself in that position ever again. I will be valued in the same way I value you, it's that simple.

I love to travel and see the world, all avenues, all areas. I love outdoor adventures (except hunting) and pretty much open to anything new. I love the beach, the mountains and everything in between so a mutual love would be ideal but not required. However, if you are a couch potato - keep moving. You don't have to enjoy the same hobbies but have some kind of hobby that adds value and/or improvement in your life. I cannot be with or around those who waste hours upon hours of this amazing life with their face in a phone or their eyes at the television. I am down for movie nights and chill time - and of course football season - but not in excess.

Lastly, please for the love of humanity, bring back the romance and class of dating. I am well aware and definitely capable of opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc. but it's just nice to know this type of man still exists. I don't expect nor do I need materialistic things to feel appreciated and adorned - actions and words are more important to me. Gentle touches, spine-tingling gazes and gentle smiles do more for me than any diamond. That is the connection I am searching for and only time will tell if this is the avenue that will help me find it!

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Libra
College:
Park University, Parkville, MO
Last read:

The Undiscovered Self

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Auburn / Red
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Currently Separated
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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