Rev Up Your love Life With These Tips!

DrKCU

OK, the first thing you need to know is that...

Close Window

DrKCU has been notified that you want to learn about her.

Check back after a few days & see if she has added more details to her profile.

CLOSE

Like
Tell her why you like this photo. close

SUBSCRIBE AND SEND loading

« »

Active within 24 hours

42 year old woman
Salt Lake City, Utah, United States

Seeking:
men 35-45
Within:
50 Miles of Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'1" (154cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

OK, the first thing you need to know is that I'm not really my stated age. Due to our ageist society, I would get fewer matches if I indicated my actual chronological age. That said, everything else in my profile is true and accurate. I look like my pictures. If you have a problem with that little lie, rather than send a snarky comment, simply don't contact me.

So here we are engaging in virtual courting. The online dating thing is efficient (& less yukky than mail order?) I don't really depend on my friends and family to introduce me to potential partners- been there, done that- & I don't really have many opportunities to meet new people. I would like to develop a friendship based on trust, respect, honesty, comfort and common values/interests. If there's chemistry, then the relationship could deepen into something more serious. I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A CASUAL HOOK UP, so please move on if that's all you want. Did you know there are a lot of guys out there whose primary interest seems to be finding a f-buddy? Really. Perhaps Match is different and you are hopefully looking for something deeper. I am very sensual, however, and you might even discover my naughty side. But I need an underlying emotional connection for the physical to be meaningful.

I have 2 wonderful children who are the light of my life. My daughter moved out last fall and my son died in early 2014 at the age of 14-1/2. His death is leading me on a transformative journey. My daughter and I are best friends as well as mother and daughter. My kids will always be the center of my universe. Along with the sadness of losing my son, I enjoy many moments of laughter, joy and fun. These emotions coexist.


Although I am a fun-loving person who enjoys laughing, I am empathetic, sensitive, and caring. I physically separated from my husband in May, 2011, but the emotional separation had been going on for years. Neither of us is inherently a bad person; we are simply not a good match. I hope to not repeat some of the mistakes I made in that relationship as I embark on this dating adventure.

I'm not vain and do not spend an inordinate amount of time fussing with my appearance. That said, I am in excellent physical condition and care enough about my looks and am as physically attractive as the next woman (isn't physical attraction pretty subjective anyway?) If you find smaller, athletic women attractive, you'll probably be drawn to me. I would like to meet men with a similar attitude – not too obsessed with their looks, but who care enough to remain physically fit.


If this site were a menu that I could order from, the type of man I’m interested in meeting would ideally bring most of the following to the table:
- honesty, tempered with tact
- humility, with a good dose of self-confidence
- insight, including keen self-awareness
- intelligence, but not a smartass or know it all
- open-minded & accepting of differences
- flexible and spontaneous, yet responsible and dependable
- good sense of humor (not sarcastic or cynical, and able to laugh at himself)
- compassionate & kind
- passionate abt something, anything
- respect for the earth and its inhabitants (so, no hunters or men who enjoy killing things, please)
- willingness to take responsibility for what's his and what's not (so, apologize when you need to, don't put up with unnecessary blame, and have a conversation about it if you're not sure.)

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
Favorite hot spots:

Anywhere with a sandy beach (rocky shores are wonderful, as well)
Cities with a thriving night life

Favorite things:

Hanging out with my kids, friends, running, other exercise, comedy clubs, dancing, eating out, hiking, going to the beach (challenging in land-locked Utah), seeing & discussing movies, live theatre, reading, writing, sudoku, live music

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'1" (154cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Salt and pepper
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Labor / Construction, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design
Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Currently Separated
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
No preference

I'm yonsei, 4th generation Japanese American

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious, Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Close Window

Your message has been sent to DrKCU

CLOSE

Close Window

We encountered a problem sending your message to DrKCU. Please try again later.

CLOSE

Finish by entering your Match.com sign in details.

Not a member? Sign up now »
Continue

Finish by entering your Match.com sign in details.

This lets you sign in faster next time.

By clicking "Begin Now", I agree to receive transactional and promotional emails from Match.com. I understand that I am free to withdraw consent at any time.
Continue
By using our site, you agree to the Match.com Terms of Use.
Already a member? Sign in here »

Close Window

Your message has been sent to DrKCU.

See More Like her:


view more »

CLOSE WINDOW