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41 year old woman
Salt Lake City, Utah, United States

Seeking:
men 33-45
Within:
50 Miles of Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'1" (154cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

OK, the first thing you need to know is that I'm not really my stated age. I just chose 1972 as my birth year on a whim, realizing that because we live in an ageist society, I would get fewer matches if I indicated I was over 40. That said, everything else in my profile is true and accurate. My pictures are all taken in 2011 2012. You should also know that I haven't yet subscribed to match, so if I don't reply to your email, it doesn't mean I'm not interested. I'll eventually subscribe...

Another important fact is that I have 2 wonderful children who are the light of my life. I'm currently in a period of transition, becoming more fully aware of aspects of myself that I had allowed to remain dormant.

Through this time of change, I continue to strive to be as good a mom as possible to my kids. We are in this growth phase together, through tough times and joyous ones as well.

If you are still reading, then you are the type of person I am interested in meeting. If the desire is mutual, you'll have to follow cupid's arrow and figure out that I'm jeslookin4fun (and the right man to have it with) through the medium of online dating.

Basically, although I am a fun-loving person, I am empathic, sensitive, and caring. I physically separated from my husband in May, 2011, although the emotional separation had been going on for years. This is not because either of us is inherently a bad person; we just are simply not a good match. I hope to not repeat some of the mistakes I made in that relationship as I embark on meeting others.

So what characteristics am I looking for in a "good match"? You might find this ironic (due to that lie abt my age), but honesty is one of the fundamental traits I consider mandatory. I am a very trusting and trustworthy person, so I want those kinds of people in my life. Related to this is the ability to be honest with yourself, acknowledging your own strengths, vulnerabilities, and areas in which you are still developing. Being self-aware, insightful, and unabashedly courageous in owning and being who you are, while balancing feedback from others to help with those blind spots and growth edges.

Other traits I'm looking for, because I strive for these in myself: good sense of humor (not sarcastic or cynical, but someone who can laugh at himself); compassionate towards others; passionate abt something, anything; respect for the earth all its inhabitants (so, no hunters or men who enjoy killing things, please); secure in himself (which includes awareness of his own insecurities!). That's all I can think of right now...

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Gemini
College:
University of Utah, Salt Lake City, UT
Favorite hot spots:

New York City (especially lower Manhattan up through Harlem), Monterey Peninsula, Berkeley (particularly the hills & Telegraph Ave), San Francisco, any sort of hip dance club, various places in South America & the Dominican Republic

Favorite things:

Hanging out with my kids, friends, running, other exercise, comedy clubs, dancing, eating out, hiking, going to the beach (challenging in land-locked Utah), discussing movies we've seen, live theatre, reading, writing, sudoku, live music

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'1" (154cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Salt and pepper
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Labor / Construction, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Other profession, Architecture / Interior design
Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Currently Separated
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
No preference

I'm yonsei, 4th generation Japanese American

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious, Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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