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42 year old woman
Salt Lake City, Utah, United States

Seeking:
men 35-45
Within:
50 Miles of Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Relationship:
Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'1" (154cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

OK, the first thing you need to know is that I'm not really my stated age. I just chose 1972 as my birth year on a whim, realizing that because we live in an ageist society, I would get fewer matches if I indicated my chronological age. That said, everything else in my profile is true and accurate. I look like my pictures. If you have a problem with that little lie, please don't contact me!

I'm doing the online dating thing because it's efficient. If I had the time to go out and meet new people, I would (I don't really depend on my friends and family to introduce me to potential partners). I would like to meet, date and develop a friendship based on mutual trust, respect, honesty, comfort and common values/interests. If there's chemistry, then the relationship could deepen into something more serious. I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A CASUAL HOOK UP, so please don't contact me if that's all you want. No judgment, but I'm not interested in that type of relationship.

Another important fact is that I have 2 wonderful children who are the light of my life. Update as of 5/2014: My daughter moved out in Sept, 2013, and my son died in February, 2014, at the age of 14-1/2. His death is leading me on a transformative journey, causing me to more fully examine life, myself and the meaning of many things. My daughter and I are best friends as well as mother and daughter. My kids (both of them) will always be the center of my universe.

Although I am a fun-loving person, I am empathetic, sensitive, and caring. I physically separated from my husband in May, 2011, although the emotional separation had been going on for years. This is not because either of us is inherently a bad person; we just are simply not a good match. I hope to not repeat some of the mistakes I made in that relationship as I embark on meeting others.

I'm not vain and do not spend an inordinate amount of time fussing with my appearance. That said, I am in excellent physical condition and care enough about my looks to be as physically attractive as the next woman (isn't physical attraction pretty subjective anyway?) If you find smaller, athletic women attractive, you'll probably find me attractive.

So what characteristics am I looking for in a "good match"? You might find this ironic (due to that lie abt my age), but honesty is one of the fundamental traits I consider mandatory. I am a very trusting and trustworthy person, so I want similar people in my life. I'm also very transparent and open (ask any of my friends - they tell me this is something they love about me).

Crucial traits (I strive for these in myself):
- self-awareness
- the ability to be honest with yourself
- can acknowledge your own strengths, vulnerabilities, and areas in which you are still developing
- insightful
- unabashedly courageous in owning and being who you are, yet open to receiving feedback non defensively
- open-minded
- flexible and spontaneous, yet responsible and dependable

Other traits I'm looking for, again because I myself have them: good sense of humor (not sarcastic or cynical, but someone who can laugh at himself); compassionate towards others; passionate abt something, anything; respect for the earth and its inhabitants (so, no hunters or men who enjoy killing things, please); secure in himself (which includes awareness of his own insecurities!); willingness to take responsibility for what's his and what's not (so, apologize when you need to, don't put up with unnecessary blame, and have a conversation abt it if you're not sure.) That's all I can think of right now...

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
Favorite hot spots:

Anywhere with a sandy beach (rocky shores are wonderful, as well)
Cities with a thriving night life

Favorite things:

Hanging out with my kids, friends, running, other exercise, comedy clubs, dancing, eating out, hiking, going to the beach (challenging in land-locked Utah), seeing & discussing movies, live theatre, reading, writing, sudoku, live music

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'1" (154cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Salt and pepper
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Labor / Construction, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design
Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Currently Separated
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
No preference

I'm yonsei, 4th generation Japanese American

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious, Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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