I am not looking for new friends...I have a ton of great girlfriends... I am looking for a happy guy who has his s*it pulled together, and isn't threatened or insecure... ideally someone who can just hang and be cool...
Soap box time: a six year preference or less doesn't quite qualify me as a cougar... the title makes me chuckle a bit... I don't stalk twenty somethings and wear polyester leopard print...interesting how most men my age's target dating pool is a good 10 -15 years younger... so funny!! I'm actually 'too old' for my own age...go figure! ....hell, maybe they're onto something I don't know about, I married as a teenager to a much older man... it ultimately led me down a pretty lonely road... maybe men know something I don't.... maybe dating younger is the trick!
This idea is definitely wacky... so I'm braving this crazy ride again and I'm totally optimistic about the whole process!
ultimately it would be great if something worked out long term...I know I am happiest in a relationship and my true match should feel the same...not just say it... but actually enjoy the day in day out stuff...
I like outdoors fun the best... sunsets, ocean, trees, mountains, lake, delta, rivers, campsite, trail .. I enjoy most genres of music (insane skat jazzy stuff is my least favorite; shoot me) ..comedy, sporting events, foodie spots, shopping, people watching, ...that's my idea of fun...heck, a farmers market can be a helluva' lot of fun with the right person... clubs can be fun as a once a year thing...but 'clubbing' has never been my cup of tea... why go out when you can turn your kitchen into a club, put on some pandora and dance in your slippers...
so I'm putting it all out there... ready to see who I meet!
my mantra: " Be yourself no matter...the people who matter don't mind, and the people who mind don't matter"- Dr. Seuss
