I am looking for the perfect man that can match my sarcasm, make me laugh, keep me on my toes, give me a life full of laughter, joy, and surprises, but also someone who will hold my hand when times are tough & be a team with me-us against the world! I'm super outgoing, everyone says the first word they think of to describe me is fun, but I'm also a homebody-sometimes there's nothing better than snuggling up in bed & renting movies all night on Apple TV! I am a nurturer, just to prepare you-I LOVE to pamper my guy! I love cooking, baking, cleaning, other things that will probably not make "approval", but overall, I am super affectionate & I love to do things for the ones I love! I want someone who tells me no, because I can be very persuasive when I want something & I don't always need it. I want someone who will always kiss me goodnight & hold me, even if we've been fighting for hours-I really do believe in never going to sleep mad! I want someone who respects the fact that I'm a picky eater, but realizes that just because I don't want to eat it, that doesn't mean I won't cook it for you or go to a restaurant that you LOVE but isn't necessarily my taste...I can ALWAYS find something on the menu, & I might just surprise you by trying something new! I'm more of a night owl that an early bird-blame the almost 8 years of bartending-I am able to get up early? It just takes a loud alarm & lots of caffeine, but it normally takes me a while to wake up & feel productive...that being said, I feel the most creative & productive from afternoon on, and if I'm inspired, sometimes I just go with it, and am up too late...the good part is that it is usually a good thing! Once I'm up, I'm energy energy energy, and I tend to lean more towards Type B personality, though there are some non-negotiate Type A things about me, too...I lived for so long on a strict schedule, with everything planned, & while it worked out all right, I was not completely happy...so I decided to just let most things just happen, & deal with responsibilities & important things as a Type A...I have a love/hate relationship with "plans"-I've got my goal boards & future plans of course, but in terms of day to day? I love to just take it as it comes...if it's nice out, there's so many options of what we can do, whether outside OR inside...like I said earlier, I'm the life of the party, but I'm also the girl who likes the spend the entire day in bed, just because? I don't expect "grand gestures", which is why I am not a fan of chick flicks...I feel that tiny gestures, like you grocery shopping & remembering that I love berries & bringing me some home as a surprise...to me, a surprise just has to come from the heart, a gesture just has to come from the heart...I would much rather a handpicked bouquet or a bouquet of flowers that is ME, that the store bought dozen roses...I love fix it guys, since my dad & brother & my "surrorgate" brothers have taken care of me my whole life in that aspect, & I don't wanna check my oil, I'm not completely sure how to check my tire pressure? I'm scared to light the gas grill, & a fuse box is like a puzzle to me...I really feel that men & women were put together to do certain things, & I'd never expect my man to do the ironing or sewing or scrubbing out the bathtub...unless he wanted to :) I'm just traditional, & I will admit that I am still devastated by the loss of my marriage, because I took vows before God, but I can at least take comfort in the fact that it wasn't me who ended things-I'm a fighter! But even I have to admit it was a fight that wasn't worth fighting, & now I'm having fun rediscovering myself, because I was pretty amazing before, & I know I will be after! If you're looking for someone who loves to laugh, loves adventures-big or small, & wants to build a real, true, lasting relationship, then I'm your girl-I want to find that love that I can't live without, the one who I can grow old with-is that you? If so, I wanna meet you NOW!