Life is short; take what you have and live life to the fullest. Now that I have a child I see how important quality relationships are. I have no time for mind games and no time to be your mom. Looking for a real man, one that can clean up for a musical or dress down for a Dave Mathews concert. I am a huge water baby and currently live on a lake. I have a job working for the state, with Juvenile Delinquents but my real passion is my side gig as a horse breeder and trainer, horse showing and occasionally doing lessons. My ultimate plan is to own a small farm on a body of water. I am currently going back to school for my third degree as a Forensic Mental Health Counselor. As you can tell, my down time is limited and I do have a full schedule. Looking for someone to enjoy those moments with and to take things very slow with, as my desire for religion and faith run deep. When I allow myself to take down my hair, I am a considerate, fun and adventurous woman who would like picnics in the park (by water :), a muddy off road adventure or a game of golf followed by a nice relaxing meal lakeside........it's a good thing I live here in the Finger Lakes Region :) At the end of the day ................I've lost that loving feeling...................can someone help me find it ?