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38 year old woman
Berkeley, California, United States

Seeking:
men 32-48
Within:
120 Miles of Santa Cruz, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

What is this “living life to the fullest” that everyone on Match seems to be doing? It sounds exhausting. Me, I’d say I clock in at a pretty solid 85% on average; with bursts of 100% and the occasional 60% slump.

*YOU:*
Above all, you are kind. Smart and able to articulate your feelings. Assertive but able to listen and compromise. (That describes me too.)The rest is gravy: Great if your interests include travel and being outdoors. You likely meditate or have some other sort of practice that helps you grow. "Chemistry" is a must, but I’ve learned that chemistry can build over time and has more to do with intimacy and connection than with you looking like Matt Damon before he turned the corner. (Think Bourne Identity, not that weird fracking movie.)

I don’t expect you to be perfect, or perpetually happy, or un-scarred by life, your exes and the mean kid in 1st grade who wouldn’t let you play with the red truck. In fact, that would be a little weird, not to mention boring. But I would like you to have done some soul searching about who you are and how you show up with others. In an ideal world, we help each other learn and grow and be our best selves

*ME:*
I harbor a romantic fantasy of living off the land, growing food and plucking fresh eggs from beneath my happy hens each morning, then possibly prancing around with a baby goat or two. But when I tried last year, all I could manage was lettuce. My pepper plant started strong but lost its will to live before feeding me a single pepper. My tomatoes were an unmitigated debacle from start to finish, leaving me to slink guiltily back to the grocery store. Good thing I held off on the chickens. And the baby goats.

Now I work for an agriculture company (the good kind), but they wisely don't let me near the growing part of it. It seems a reasonable compromise.

My best friend has been my best friend since the age of four even though we've lived on different continents for many years. I grew up in another country. I once spent a year and a half traveling around the world. I got an MBA from a fancy school, then single handedly ruined our "post graduate income" ranking by spending 7 months living and working at a retreat center in Big Sur. These all felt like important experiences that shape me, but I can't seem to bundle them into a tidy story line. Then again, that appears to be true for my life.

I have a soft spot for "befuddled," "besmirched" and assorted other "be-" words. Seriously: Besmirched? Say that 5 times and tell me it doesn't make you just a little bit happy.

*US:*
If this sounds about right to you, why not write me. I'll probably enjoy spending a little time getting to know you even if things don't work out

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Music and concerts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I'm a travel junkie (once spent 14 months traveling around the world ), outdoor fanatic (used to lead trekking trips in Latin America), eater of strange foods (see travel junkie) and reader of trashy crime novels.

Favorite hot spots:

Local: Big Sur, Yosemite. Far flung: Western Australia

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

I work as a marketing manager for a food company. The good kind. I'm passionate about my work, but I'm generally pretty good about not letting it take over my life. Generally.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Agnostic
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious
Languages:
English, German, Spanish
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

In my experience, education is a pretty decent proxy for intelligence, and I tend to be attracted to educated men...But I also know there are plenty of exceptions to the rule.

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