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45 year old woman
Rye Brook, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 38-52
Within:
30 Miles of Rye Brook, New York, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Definitely not looking to get married minutes after meeting my Match. But, my long-term objective is to find a partner and best friend...
With that stated, I want to thank all those kind enough to request a "hook-up", "sexting buddy", or "sugar mama", I am very flattered. However, I politely decline and ask that you move on to the next profile.

So...here's the difficult part, describing who I am and what I'm looking for:

First, I'm an active, vibrant and youthful woman who stays in shape and eats healthy (yes, I splurge occasionally.) I'm intelligent and humorous...and up to date on current events. I am not looking for a contest- but, I'm aware of the world and like to talk about a variety of topics.
I enjoy sports, theater and art (although, I have not spent much time on any of these in the past year-please help me!)
**VERY IMPORTANT- I'm a mother with 3 boys (twins-6yrs., singleton-11.5)
and spend a good part of my time wrestling on the floor, dancing like a lunatic, throwing a ball in the backyard, or jumping on the trampoline with them. They think I'm silly, and tough and must be reminded that I am not a tackling dummy!
I always believe that things will work out in the end. I'm not overly optimistic, or naive. I'm definitely a realist, but possess a faith in my life taking the shape it's meant to.
I have expectations of how people should treat one another, but I'm not high-maintenance or demanding. None of the women I'm close to are princesses, either. I'm not interested in creating or surrounding myself with drama - life hands you it, regardless.
My career is rewarding (in addition to allowing me to live with reduced financial stress.) I also recognize the value in taking time for myself. I believe that kids sense when you want to be with them. I adore my boys and cherish the time we're together. I don't know if this would be possible if I didn't take care of myself as well.

Who am I looking for? Someone to make me laugh...someone to keep me light, someone who I can look forward to, someone who is comfortable in his skin and can express himself with ease and self-assurance. I don't think similar interests make people more compatible-Chemistry and genuine respect usually work for me. I will be attracted to the man I'm with, but, it is personal and cannot be defined - as it is different with each individual.

I can juggle a great many responsibilities independently. But, as time passes, I recognize that I miss having someone. I remember how awesome it felt to have an adult in my life that I was connected with, because it can get overwhelming at times.
I'd like to meet a special person, start off as friends (not for YEARS, but a reasonable time period,) and feel it grow and become more meaningful...I want to find passion and friendship in one package... Do you know what I mean?
I'm looking for someone who is ready...let me know when you are.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Bowling, Cycling, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Would love a dog for the boys, but I'll wait for them to be a bit older and more involved in caretaking.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
Purchase College, State University of New York, Purchase, NY
For fun:

My favorite ways to spend my downtime are: with close friends-doing anything, sporting events, trying a new restaurant, seeing a concert (rock, pop, as long as it's live I'm game) the beach, biking, whipping up something new-no recipe, reading novels

Favorite hot spots:

I'm addicted to traveling and exploring. Favs- US: N. Orleans, Miami, Chicago, San Fran. Europe: London, Santorini, Florence/Rome Amsterdam. LOVE island getaways too! A frozen Margarita with salt and a view can change your perspective quickly.

Favorite things:

Must watch Mad Men-like Nurse Jackie/Shameless (not a fan of reality TV,) rock/alternative (Kings of Leon, Neon Trees, Foo Fighters), 80's playlists, LOVE-Sushi & - then bacon, go figure(?) cuddling with my little ones, a walk at dusk, laughing!

Last read:

"Lean In" by Sheryl Sandberg, Harvard Business Review, and at least one childrens' book each night - most recently," Knuffle Bunny" by Mo Willems

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'11" (180cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Light brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Other profession, Architecture / Interior design

I'm an HR Exec for a pharmaceutical company and I really enjoy my work. I'm one of those lucky people that is happy to get up every day!

Income:
I'll tell you later
$75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian, Other

I'm a mixture of Polish/Italian and I'm proud of both heritages...

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

It's part of who I am. I don't expect someone to have the exact same conviction I do, but, I want someone to realize this is a part of me. I am convinced you can be smart, and believe in God.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Columbia University, Teachers College

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