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35 year old woman
Oak Park, Michigan, United States

Seeking:
men 34-45
Within:
50 Miles of Detroit, Michigan, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Among many other superpowers, I wield ninja-level PhotoShop skills – but those pictures you just finished viewing? I believe in truth-in-advertising, so I'll leave the hardcore retouching to the fashion magazines. ;)

About me:

I am… an architect. Some friends thought that might scare you off (?), but really, I have more faith in you than that. For now, you need to know that I love it, and that I’m good at it. …Still here? I knew you would be.

I am... not a stranger to singing behind the wheel. Or in the shower. **No one has ever given me an award for this**. They probably won't, but I'm totally saving a spot on my shelf, just in case.

I am... not going to lie; my chocolate chip cookies are kind of a big deal.

I am… always impressed by honed wit, originality, and elegant simplicity.

I am… the kind of girl that goes on summer vacation with family and comes back with a kayak she hadn’t planned to buy. It turns out that I’ve always been someone who should own a kayak.

I am… not above reading an entire book all at once, if it's a good one. I love words – the power of the right ones, the devastating effect of the wrong ones, the quote that haunts you for days... Seeing something in a new way and never being able to un-see it. I'm a writer, but not a Writer.

I am… not likely to leave the important things unsaid. (Not surprisingly, many of the not-so-important things make the cut, too.)

I am… fiercely protective and supportive of “my people” -- my family, and a small circle of wonderful friends, mentors, and partners-in-crime. None of them has ever called me to help them bury a body... but they know they could.

I am… a fan of being healthy, but I'm not a "health nut". A weekly yoga class helps me annihilate stress (relax, guys... it's not a religion!). I used a jedi mind trick to bamboozle myself into jogging, and I can "run" a 5K. I bike, I garden, I’ve been camping since I was 6 months old, I golf (not well), I’ve taken Tai Chi and Zumba classes – I love new challenges. I try to eat well, but cheese, carbs, dark chocolate and ice cream aren't going away any time soon. (Two words: “emotional nutrition”.)

I am… going to make it to Italy one day. Not just Italy, other places, too. But definitely Italy. Soon. [UPDATE: So, here's news: I got the chance to go to Kuwait for work. ...it was AMAZING. Ready for the next adventure!]

That's way more than enough about me. Let's talk about you. I’m looking for:

The kind of smile that lights up your eyes and lets me know that I might be in for just a little more than I bargained for. It’s genuine, no-holds-barred, and often accompanied by a casual but challenging comment and a raised eyebrow. Challenge accepted. ;)

Authenticity, honesty, and trust. Non-negotiable. You can count on me for the same.

Hugs are really good, too.

A partner with growth potential. Someone who has a plan, but is open to -- and interested in -- making life bigger, learning new things about the world, himself, me, us…

Someone else whose sports heroes include (but are not necessarily limited to) the little girl wearing the sparkly shoes at mini-golf. She believes in herself, is totally in the moment, closes her eyes and takes the shot… and more often than not, she gets that hole-in-one.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Golf, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

No pets right now, but not because I don't like them.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

"I'm up for anything" is such a cliche. So, let's try this:
I'm probably never going to skydive. Just about everything else is up for negotiation; let's talk!

Favorite things:

Quality time with friends and family. Trying new things. Laughing until I cry. Tea. Dark Chocolate. Color. Surprises. Giving the perfect gift. Autumn. Thunder-Snow! The smell of a (camp)fire. Browsing bookstores. Serendipity.

Last read:

"Let's Pretend This Never Happened"; Jenny Lawson. "The Age of Miracles"; Karen Thompson Walker. "Imagine"; Jonah Lehrer.
Also, the entire Internet.**
(**strictly speaking, that's not 100% accurate. Don't believe everything you read on the 'net.)

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Architecture / Interior design
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Not-exactly-equal parts German, Polish, Irish, Austrian... and Trouble. ;)

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Here's the thing - to me, "religious" implies that you follow *all* of the rules... including going to church regularly. Which I don't. I was raised Catholic and still follow most of the other rules, though -- so if you're curious, ask me sometime.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

My family likes to play a game called "This girl has three degrees and she still can't figure out how to... (*fill in the blank*)" :) Some day it will get old. I hope.

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