OMG, just was told this cant be less than 200 characters... okay well i am not reading "the list"!! i am a widow for almost 3 years. Not the type to put myself out there but know i deserve more. i am fun, energetic and looking for the same. I am a redhead but Italian raised and prefer the same. Like the finer things in life but always remember a wife is a wife! My children will always come first but I love my friends! I love spending time with them and don't like jealousy!!! i think im funny, witty, and looking for the same.