Here's the deal. I only have the free membership.(I put myself on this site on a whim.) This means that if you try to send me an email or IM me, I can't see it. Those are the rules of Match.
Before deciding to pay for a membership, I did a little research and read reviews from other users. I didn't like what I saw.
My first red light from this site was reading the automatic renewal policy. Reviews proved I was correct to be wary. Because of this, I will be taking my information off of this site.
I am only leaving this "About Me" up for a little while, for anyone who may have sent an email or left a comment (none of which I saw) to say thank you for contacting me. Alas, this is goodbye.
I wish you all well in your continued search.