I am optimistic, easy going, a good listener and a little shy at first. I have a good sense of humor but do have the occasional blonde moment, which is ok because I can laugh at myself. :) I am confident and compassionate. I believe fun is more about who I'm with than what we are doing. I believe in letting people be who they are, I either accept them into my life or we both move on. Compatibility and chemistry are very important and neither can be forced.I am affectionate and enjoy walking hand in hand and sharing a random hug or kiss. I don't want to be with someone who agrees with me all the time. I believe we continue to grow and evolve as humans and that requires being around people who challenge me or make me think about things in a different light. That being said, it is important to me that we have the same core values. I believe in open communication even when it is uncomfortable. The key is to always be respectful. I enjoy someone who will nudge (encourage) me outside of my comfort zone. I am a Christian but I was not raised in the church. I am still learning, I stumble and I may even fall, but I get up again. My faith is very important to me and I think it is important to give my children a strong foundation...easier said than done. I attend church as often as I can (4 out of 6 Sundays) and I sing in the choir. I enjoy being where there is lots of energy, so going to listen to live music (I prefer smaller venues for this as opposed to big concerts) a play, comedy club, sporting event are all things I like to do. I also enjoy wandering around places like the stockyards, sundance square, the zoo, etc. I really enjoy friend/family gatherings.....a backyard BBQ or game watching party. I went for my first ever motorcycle ride last summer and fell in love. I couldn't believe how relaxing it was. I enjoy trying new things. I am a romantic, but don't need big romantic gestures. To me a single rose is just as good as a bouquet....because the thought and sentiment are the same. Taking my hand, touching the small of my back, opening a door or a touch of my face are all romantic gestures in my book.
I'm looking for a confident guy who likes to have fun. I want to laugh with you (and if the occasion arises at you, but you will laugh at me sometimes too.) A man who communicates well, is affectionate, family oriented,likes to go out and do things, but also enjoys a quiet night at home. I do not create drama and I don't want to have drama in my life. I appreciate that everyone needs "solo time" or time to hang out with friends. Being in a relationship is about the connection and commitment....quality time, not quantity. I do enjoy spending time with my partner but also believe in supporting the other relationships in his life.
I do want my next relationship to be long term. I don't enjoy being single, but I am also not willing to settle. I believe there is someone out there for each of us.....I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me. :)
I am certain there is a lot more to say so if you are curious about something just drop me a line.