I am not perfect and don’t expect others to be. I try to live a drama free lifestyle and enjoy easy going people. I’m quick witted, sincere and intelligent. I’m independent but am working on allowing others in. I can be a bit goofy at times and enjoy just being who I am and not pretending to be someone that I’m not.
I understand that at this point in life, people have lived their lives and usually have a bit of baggage and that’s okay; it’s what we do with that baggage that counts. I look at life as an adventure and like to think that things happen for a reason. I try to find ways to grow during challenging times but it’s usually in hindsight that I see the changes within. I don’t particularly like change but understand that it’s the way life is and I just accept things as they come, but sometimes fight it, if it isn’t to my liking. I find that it isn’t until I let go of trying to control the outcome that I find peace within…a lesson I still struggle with.
I like helping others and rude people suck (I appreciate that bumper sticker). I’m close with my mom, but she lives in both Marin and St. Thomas, so she’s not around much.
I find satisfaction in helping others.
I'm congenial and can strike up a conversation with just about anyone; however, sometimes I enjoy solitude and decompressing after a long day at work. I work out about 3-4 times a week and eat out a lot simply because my commute is horrible right now and it just doesn't allow for much relaxation during the work week.
After being single for about a year, I'm now ready to get out there and start dating and it’s because three people at work met their spouses on Match that I’m trying it out. I’m actually a bit of a romantic and this conflicts with that sentimentality within but I'm open to new things. I'd like to meet that man who makes me feel like a blushing school girl, who makes my stomach flutter with crazy butterflies, who makes me feel giddy with excitement and anxious to be with…so we’ll see. I sure hope he’s still available?
Anyway, that’s enough marketing for me. Let me know if you’re interested.
Thanks, Jen
