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41 year old man | Country Club Park, CA, USA | Seeking women 30-50 in California, United States

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
Black / African descent, Native American
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'2" (187cms)
Spiritual but not religious
I'll tell you later
Social Drinker
Today you are You that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than you." - Dr. Seuss

In his own words

First of all, thanks for visiting my page! I believe that Communication, Respect and Trust are the keys to ANY relationship. And now instead of the embarrassing self-description I will use the results of a recent personality test, which surprisingly(my first test), was pretty spot-on. the "You" is actually "Me", lol about your personality You have a great deal of energy and vitality. You are curious, creative and resilient. You have many interests; and you find pleasure in doing and thinking about all sorts of things. You tend to be optimistic, seeing the world as a place of adventure-- physical, intellectual or both. You seek first-hand experiences. And when you embark on a project or expedition, you like to be organized, thorough and responsible. You enjoy the pleasures of the senses, yet you are firmly grounded in reality and live in the here and now. You can be charming and charismatic; and you sometimes like to surprise those you love with generous presents. You also have a clear moral compass and stand up for your beliefs. And in spite of your flexibility and enjoyment of novelty, you have a genuine respect for home, family, work and community. You are conscientious, dependable, cooperative and protective. relating to others You have a keen sense of humor and a great many interests-so people gravitate to you. You are also savvy at managing and handling others. And because you are broad-minded, adaptable and playful, as well as dependable and loyal, you can be an exciting yet stable and dedicated friend and colleague. love and relationships You are attracted to people who will explore ideas, philosophies, cities and/or the natural world with you. You like spontaneous, curious risk-takers like yourself. And you want a partner who shares your live-and-let-live attitude. But you also need someone who is eager to help you build strong family and community ties. You are interested in sex; sexual compatibility is an important part of your primary relationship. Although you like to spend your money, you admire frugal people and believe in saving-except when an appropriate adventure comes along. And you seek a partner who is pragmatic, who shares your view of duty and tradition and whom you regard as moral and cooperative. Yet he or she has to have your level of energy and curiosity too. Well there it is, I can be found at darylanthonyharper at the "Gentleman's" email and not the hot one because I don't think I am continuing my subscription, so find me, hit me, smack me there please! lol! And lastly I am grateful for breathing in and out, everything else is simply gravy! Hmmm...gravy! lol. Life is a banquet and I want to taste everything on the table and come back for seconds of the stuff I really like. I love to cook so a "foodie" would be nice to share that passion with and explore different cultures through food! lol! hmmmm, I'm hungry! Someone who enjoys soothing and sensual foot massages. (I am very serious about this, lol) My life philosophy is: "What you already know is merely a departure point"! Cheers! I hope you're feeling adventurous!! Hit me up and blessings to you!

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs, Fish, Horses, Other

Well I do have a few plants. Chuck, Betty, Felicia, and Ulysses!

Political views


Favorite hot spots

That little spot on the nape of your neck, My kitchen for more reasons than one. lol France is just simply amazing! The big Island of Hawaii is just as amazing but in a very different way. Local bars with character and flava! Korean BBQ restaurants


Chapman University, Orange, CA

Favorite things

Sports,drinking while Cooking,singing in kitchen,makingSangria! Finding special person's hand in mine effortlessly,giving foot massages,Making Gumbo, Korean BBQ, Indian Cuisine,Champagne! Bubble baths,(shhh,I'm not giving up my man card),meditation,

For fun

Movie screenings, sports, playing, watching live and on TV. Anything at the beach or parks. I love nature, although I am a city boy at heart. Museums , friend's,picnics, hikes live music on the green, while having a picnic and playing sports!!

Last read

"The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho "Don't wait around for other people to be happy for you. Any happiness you get you've got to make yourself." -- Alice Walker

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'2" (187cms) 4'10" (147cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Black Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
Smoke: I'll tell you later No preference
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Artistic / Creative / Performance No preference
I've been a professional actor for 9 years, a banker for about 10, a sales manager in high tech for two and a cusotmer service manager at nordstrom for two. (My job at Nordstrom is what afforded me the opportunity to start doing theatre again! :)
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Someday No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: Black / African descent, Native American Asian, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian
I'm originally from the bay area, born and bread in Berkeley. I lived in Inglewood from age 5-10, which was a needed culture shock i believe. Kinda toughened me up and opened my eyes to a lot of things that I was somewhat shelterd from.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
I was raised as a Baptist but consider myself non-denominational and spiritual.
Languages: English, Spanish No preference
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Started off as a pre-law major and ended up with a degree in radio, film and television production, and a job in banking! lol! go figure, but that was then and this is now as I'm am living with my true passion now! i am an artist! Yippee!! :)
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