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38 year old man | Rancho Park, CA, USA | Seeking women 29-39 within 30 miles of Los Angeles, CA

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'11" (180cms)
I'll tell you later
No Way
Social Drinker
Looking for the silver lining to this...

In his own words

Looking for the silver lining to this playbook. What better opportunity to update your match profile than when you are battling a Thursday full of insomnia? So that's what this is. I've had many iterations of the "In My Own Words" section.. sometimes brilliant, sometimes perturbing and macabre and fatalistic and despairing- sometimes re-written at 2 a.m.; the point is that I don't really know what really works here as there seem to be no rules to online dating.. it's pure chaos. but I digress ME: After 19 I never really stayed in any one place for more than 3 years.. between college, travel/living overseas and whatever... it would seem this blood disorder called my "gypsie-genes" has decided that this is so. I'd like to have a great reason to stay in one place.*wink wink.... The word is peripatetic, and frankly if I don't really find someone stimulating fairly soon, I'll probably re-think staying in L.A. and seek other employment/living challenges elsewhere. Peripatetic, that's my favorite word now... I'm from Orange County (don't judge me monkey), but I retain a global multiculturalism to my general psyche and am not subject to the OC bubble mentality. I consider myself more of a man of the world and am looking for the same... well, not a man, but well, you know. I value art, music and many of the natural beauties of being out and about, whether it's on a camping trip, long mountain bike ride or an ocean swim.. it helps to counter all the media garbage and distraction, and awful things humans do to each other in our "modern" age. Still with me? YOU: Intelligence/Wisdom/Wittiness/Humor: if none of these are descriptors then we'll have nothing to talk about when feeding each other apple-sauce overlooking the ocean in our rocking chairs during retirement. Or maybe if we're at the apple-sauce stage we won't be able to chat too much.. the point is, I value conversation, intellectual banter, curiosity. For the love of the sweet baby jesus have something interesting to talk about, stories, family. Athleticism: don't have to be super fit, I'm not like I was in my 20s but am slowly working back into it. I really need to be with someone who likes outdoor activities, so maybe we can help each other out. :) I guess that's where I'll leave this section, I hope you enjoyed the novella :D just also know that I don't play games and will pretty much be an open book. Well.. not totally open, got to remain a bit mysterious. Lastly, just a few core items: I'm sure they're lovely, and you have my utmost respect, but I'm not interested in anyone who already has children. If I do decide to have kids, it'll be on my own terms and a correct decision for me and my partner (and the potential kiddo). There are lots of fake profiles on here, so winks and likes and profiles with only one picture or half-completed profiles are taken with less-than a grain of salt. At least have ONE verification and/or have a paid account.. otherwise, sorry, no dice. If you really want to say hi just say hi and I'll try to do the same. Some research indicates that almost 80-90 percent of profiles are fake, even on pay sites like this.. so if I whiff that you have a fake profile, it's been reported and I hope my fellow REAL singles do the same. Reports also indicate that fakers probably wouldn't have read this part anyway.. so....

His interests

Alumni connections , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Running, Soccer, Swimming, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

I like animals better than most people.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Here in L.A., the Getty is my sanctuary.. London has my heart, Australia has my soul and Spain has part of my medical history.


University of California, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, CA

Favorite things

Current faves- Music: 21 Pilots, Alabama Shakes. T.V.: House Hunters International, Cops, IT Crowd, Orange is the New Black, The Fall. Sports: English Soccer, College Sports, Everything else: my 3/4 Taylor Acoustic Guitar, unrestricted L.A. parking

For fun

Mountain biking, camping/hiking and pretty much anything outdoors. Wine-tasting, going to the occasional museum exhibit, indie film or interesting cultural event. I'm a Renaissance man when it comes to my interests and activities.

Last read

"Finding Ultra".. it's an inspirational autobiography, and is helping me to make some major changes in my life to get back into day at a time.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
I work at a University performing both admissions and counseling. I make like.. huge money $$$$ :D
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I value diversity in all things, people and culture.
Faith: I'll tell you later Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Spiritual but not religious, Other
Languages: English, Spanish English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
I have a degree, a certificate and a few other intellectual pursuits learner, basically. I totally own on Jeopardy because of my "random knowledge intellect" and binge-watch TED talks.
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