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34 year old man | San Jose, CA, USA | Seeking women 25-40 within 10 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Catholic
No Way
Open to possibilities

In his own words

Even though I'm a big kid at heart and very playful, romance is something I take seriously. So my ultimate goal is to be in a LTR. But sorry ladies. I hate tiny dogs that fit into a purse, country music, and sushi. So I guess I'm just not trendy. But I do exercise 6x a week and work as a personal trainer. So at least you know that I'll never lack stamina. If you're a woman that's fluent in sarcasm and sass, with a passion for fitness, that's a good start. Extra credit if you pass the ice cream test... Disclaimer - For some reason, this seems to be a huge issue for women, but I don't drink. Don't worry. I'm not a recovering alcoholic or a Mormon. I also don't have a problem with people drinking around me. I dislike the taste and avoid alcohol for health/fitness reasons. Finally, serious inquires only! No interest in chit chat, or being a pen pal. If we click after a few emails, we'll exchange numbers and I'll call you. Hate texting!

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Playing cards , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Other types of exercise, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

I would love to own an Alaskan Malamute someday because of the resemblance to wolves which is my favorite animal. Fell in love with the breed after seeing Nanook in The Lost Boys.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Local - Campbell, Los Gatos, Santana Row Travel - Vegas, LA, New York, Chicago, Boston, Hawaii, Miami


West Valley College, Saratoga, CA

Favorite things

Ask me.

For fun

Working out, rocking out to 80's music, live sporting events, time with friends, traveling, watching a variety of movies and TV shows, board games (I kick ass at Monopoly) and all the leisure sports (bowling, mini golf, and pool).

Last read

Swan Song By Robert McCammon - The best book I have ever read. It is 952 pages long and I actually wanted to start over and read it again after I finished.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'0" (152cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Green Blue, Brown, Green
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Never Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
Personal Trainer - I am very passionate about my career. Helping people reach their fitness goals and doing my part to cure national obesity is very rewarding.
Income: $35,001 to $50,000 No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: Not sure Someday, Not sure, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
I am 90% Irish. I have always wanted to go to Ireland.
Faith: Christian / Catholic No preference
I was baptizd Catholic but I am not religious in the slightest.
Languages: English English
Education: Associates degree High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree
I received an AS Degree in Business Marketing from West Valley years ago. Little did I know how much this would me help me as a personal trainer. Training is 80% sales and the ability to market yourself properly.
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