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45 year old man | Hermosa Beach, CA, USA | Seeking women 35-46 within 25 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'1" (185cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
I'm here to find a really great first date and...

In his own words

I'm here to find a really great first date and then we can take it from there; not to fit a square peg into a round hole and force a relationship. If you're up for that, then contact me. My friends will tell you that I am "fun, gregarious, with a offbeat sense of humor." And of course, "A REALLY GREAT/NICE GUY" which I take as a huge compliment. I still hold onto a bit of Michigan niceness and politeness but I'm no pushover, just chivalrous and a gentleman. I am a creator of fiction using the written word. Highly creative, I love using the right side of my brain and love to use my imagination thanks to a childhood of comic book collecting and reading fantasy and sci-fi books. Going to the movies in the middle of the day is not unusual for me. I would love to find “that” woman who is one-of-a-kind: GENUINE, SMART, ATTRACTIVE, PASSIONATE and FUN(NY) to be around. Or the cliche: a partner-in-crime. You should be able to laugh at yourself and us as a couple (and me) at times. Someone with whom I can goof around, flirt with every day, make out with in public, even after 10, 15 or 50 years. A woman that is active, competitive, funny, engaging, smart, outgoing, aware, expressive and attractive that can tie it all together with a certain “something.” Basically, myself but with an XX chromosome structure. I am looking for that last romantic relationship that never stops; from little things each day to big events in our lives, we compete against and for each other and can handle the wins and losses with aplomb and learn from them. The thought of being "comfortable," boring, 100% serious all the time and falling into a rut does not appeal to me. Even better if you SCUBA dive, really play 18 holes of golf and/or volleyball, board games, card games and still want to do more.

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Playing cards , Playing sports , Political interests , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Football, Golf, Other types of exercise, Swimming, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

I don't own pets, but often walk and sit for my friends' dogs and love them all to death.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

I don't have favorite "hot spots," but I LOVE dive bars and places where the locals are awesome to hang out with as a stranger.


University of Wisconsin–Madison, Madison, WI

Favorite things

I love to cook - breakfast, lunch, dinner - mainly lighter dishes, but love to eat sushi. Music ranges from classic rock to dance. My favorite color is "green, no blue!" (extra points if you know that one). I am a voracious reader of books.

For fun

Beach volleyball, golf, SCUBA diving, going to the movies - even the ones no one else wants to see! Watching college football on Saturday mornings, writing, reading, the daily crossword/Sodoku, board games with friends, BBQ's. Just your average guy!

Last read

David Eggers "A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius." Before that Philip K Dick's entire library. I finished Jasper Fforde's "Thursday Next" series. One of the greatest, most creative and funniest set of books I have ever read.

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'1" (185cms) 5'2" (157cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde, Platinum
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly
Occupation: Artistic / Creative / Performance Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation
I started my own my own consultancy (social media content/strategy and community management), own another growing site called "Cocktails & Movies," this past year and have written (and still do) for TV/film.
Income: I'll tell you later $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Someday Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Native American, White / Caucasian
I was born/raised in a very small town in Michigan. My entire family still lives there and I see them twice a year but talk every week, mostly to keep up on my 2 nieces/ 2 nephews (triplets and 1). My mom and dad just celebrated 45 years together.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
I was raised Methodist, but realized that religion is my own set of beliefs. I have been trying to figure it out as I get older. Part of my family has gone back to Catholicism, and I had an aunt that was Bhuddist. Not sure where I fit in.
Languages: English, Spanish French, Spanish
Education: Bachelors degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
University of Wisconsin where I "studied" communications, with an emphasis in radio/tv/film production and an unofficial "minor" in "fun." One day, maybe a Master's in philosophy?
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