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42 year old woman | Spring, TX, USA | Seeking men 38-45 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Asian, White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'2" (157cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
Social Drinker
Unique. Unconventional in nature. Solid values. "My desire is not so much to grow old together, but rather to grow better together.

In her own words

MY COMMITMENT... I am very serious about being with someone I am passionately in love with. How that happens, I have yet to see. I would love to have that instant spark upon meeting him, at the same time I recognize the best of relationships can also develop in its own time from a friendship to a "friendship gone marriage." WHAT THAT MEANS TO YOU... First, I wish to thank those of you who reach out to me with an email or a wink. I do appreciate your interest. As much as I would love to respond to each email I receive, it just isn't practical. Because I am taking this process seriously, I am only responding to those who I can see as a potential match (a match to me, and a match to you). Therefore, please know that your emails are appreciated regardless of whether you get a response or not. So THANK YOU AGAIN!!! MY IDEAL RELATIONSHIP (in no particular order)....... 1- SPIRITUAL CONNECTION (I am a very spiritual might call me religious or you might not. The spiritual connection I share (or build) with someone is personal to that relationship, so it's something we would define together. What I can say though is that I can only imagine a relationship with a strong spiritual element - I cannot imagine it without). 2- MENTAL/EMOTIONAL CONNECTION (I enjoy good mental stimulation and emotional exchange, such as engaging conversation, strategizing win-win's to honor ourselves as individuals and as a couple, or even the simple everyday interaction that just FEELS good and puts a smile on your face and an amazing joy in your body). . 3- SEXUAL CONNECTION (The keyword here is DESIRE. Must have a mutual desire to kiss and know). 4- RESPECT, HONOR and MUTUAL ADMIRATION (This to me is the soul of any relationship. Respect and honor for both yourself and the other person brings fulfillment like you would never know). 5- LOTS OF FUN and LAUGHTER (I love to laugh, although you need not be a comedian. As long as I can enjoy laughing when I am around you, we're good! And the relationship has got to be fun too....whether we are actually doing something fun, or doing something as mundane as folding laundry)! 6- FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY (I loooveee the finer things in life. At the same time, I respect my bank account, and therefore only spend what's in it). 7- COMMITMENT (Commitment for me is being your best, and doing your best. People talk about having a relationship that is 50/50. I don't want that kind of relationship. I desire a 110/110 relationship, made up of 2 people giving all they have, and striving to become more, to give more, to love more. When you have this kind of commitment in a relationship, you are connected to your heart, and the amount of confidence that brings to your love/relationship is immeasurable). If these ideals speak to you, maybe we should talk. Let me know a little about you and your ideals and/or what spoke to you about what I shared. PS - A note about actual dating: As mentioned, I am very committed to only spending time with someone who could possibly be my match. So if at any point it appears we are not a long-term match (as amazing as you could be), I prefer to recognize it for what it is, and not force anything. Therefore, because I respect myself and respect others, if we meet, and IF I AM SO LUCKY TO BE INVITED for a second, third, or fourth or fifth, or sixth, or seventh (you get the picture - LOL) date, and I don't think it's going anywhere, I will politely let you know upfront. It's not my policy to leave anyone hanging. We are all here for the same connect with our ideal match.

Her interests

Book club , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Movies/Videos , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Religion/Spiritual , Volunteering

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Dogs

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Yoga Studios, Salsa Joints, Country Dance Places , Dog Park

Favorite things

Bachata, Country, and Classical Music, Spiritual Focus, Ice Cream, Spanish, My life, Good people.

For fun

Anything that expands Consciousness, being outside, active, or quiet and laid-back.

Last read

Gandhi The Man. If you haven't read it, I suggest you do. He is the most AMAZING LEADER of our time. Inspirational on so many levels....

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'2" (157cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type: Curvy No preference
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: Asian, White / Caucasian East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Christian / Other Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
I embrace almost everything, and seek The Truth in all religions and belief systems.
Languages: English, Spanish English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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