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45 year old man | Scottsdale, AZ, USA | Seeking women 31-39 within 50 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
6'2" (187cms)
Spiritual but not religious
Social Drinker
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Oh joy. Now comes the self marketing fun of online dating! What can I tell you about this package of uber-goodness? Well, first of all . . . I'm winging it; the brave frontiers of online dating aren't my natural habitat, so for a guy with a naturally reserved disposition to begin with, I'm definitely out of my comfort zone. I'd like to find that special someone and share a relationship full of mutual attraction, respect, intimacy, acceptance, and companionship, while making memories, raising munchkins, laughing, and occasionally crying together. And at the same time, I may take Match a little less than seriously. But, hey, it's a brave new world. A little about me that some people find interesting . . . oldest sibling; played the sousaphone in elementary school marching band, and traded the horn in for the harmonica and the guitar in H.S.; studies: Philosophy (major), French, and Theatre; lived/traveled/studied/worked abroad (Europe; S. Korea); linguist for U.S. Army (Korean)--alas, when I moved from L.A., I also left my favorite Korean dry cleaner and corner convenient store, so my command of Han-guk is rusty. But reading Han-gul is still easy--it's a phonetic orthography, so anyone can read it out loud; t.v. and film production; commercial real estate property management; uncle to three; engaged, never married; parental units still locked in marital bliss; possibly OCD--jury still out on that one, but, channeled well, it seems to be an asset at times like when I throw myself into a remodel or redesign project. Some say it takes strength to be vulnerable. I suppose it's sometimes hard to be open and honest. "My new, more real (profile) says, 'I can wear the same clothes for five days. Or. I can crouch. Naked. In the shower. And get real small.'" -- Maria Bamford Well, I think Maria's seeing someone now. (If not, give me a jingle-jangle, girl!) I have no idea whether "Attach-dot-Glom" can take any credit for that. Nevertheless, I think she's onto something. Okay, so maybe something fit for stand-up is a little awkward on a first date. But what can I say? I'm awkward sometimes. (No, I'm not a stand-up comedian. And wearing the same clothes more than four days is just gross. But, I do admire bravery and humor.) Hopefully, you prefer more cowboy than knight-in-shining armor. When I suit up for knight duty, maybe it looks easy, but that's only because beneath all that shiny metal I'm rockin' boxer shorts. Still, Gold Bond powder gets messy, and armor gets heavy after a while. I'm more a jeans and a t-shirt knight. Add a hat and boots . . . that's cowboy enough for me. I can't lasso, but I'm cool with that. Not afraid to fall off my white horse. If you have the courage to stomach that, I'll do my best to return the favor. Hoping to start my own little rodeo someday, and teach little rodeo clowns how to ride--and fall. Kids have always been a part of my life, and I think it'd be nice to have a few kiddos (from scratch) before retiring these spurs. Too much equine metaphor? Okay, I'll stop. Since I just LOVE labels, I'll just add this one: INFP. What does that mean? Don't ask me. Probably that I'm a little shy--which makes perfect sense for anyone opening themselves up for public scrutiny, right? Because what better way is there to make my face-plants hurt less, other than doing it again and again? Genius! Anyway . . . have fun, and break a leg. (Any thespians out there? Beuller? Beuller?) Cheers.

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Shopping/Antiques , Video games

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Cycling, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

All cats are cool. And if it's small enough to run on AAA batteries, it's not a dog. Unless, of course, it's a pug.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

A steam room. Followed, of course, by a cold plunge!


Pepperdine University, Malibu, CA

Favorite things

NPR; Sia; Lana Del Rey; Birdy; Neko Case; Gillian Welch; Mazzy Star; Damien Rice; My Chemical Romance; Bowie; Groove Armada; ELO; Rosie Thomas; Imogen Heap; Be Good Tanyas; Eagles; Fiona Apple; Florence..Machine; Kasabian; Black Keys; Lndsy Stirling

For fun

Recreational Remodeling and Design Goodness; power naps; chugging milk from the carton; eating out; a bike or motorcycle ride; a good read; some good tunes; a walk, hike, or swim--something active (more recreational than competitive).

Last read

Game x Thrones, Glass Castle, Cement Planet, Choices, Losing Control Finding Serenity, Pricing the Future, In the Garden of Beasts, Lincoln Lawyer, Reckless Endangerment, The Grief Club, Resiliency Advantage, Gifts of Imperfection, Quiet, Being Wrong

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 6'2" (187cms) 5'5" (165cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type: About average Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
Smoke: Occasionally No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Financial / Accounting / Real Estate Other profession
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No
Wants kids: Definitely Definitely
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Spiritual but not religious
Languages: English, French, Korean English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree
BA Philosophy; Linguistic Study DLI
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