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45 year old man | Redondo Beach, CA, USA | Seeking women 28-35 within 50 miles


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His details

Have kids:
I'll tell you later
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'11" (180cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
Is there a better bet than love?

In his own words

So I have been out dating for the last 9 months or so, and I have had a number of bad experiences along the way. So I decided to list these things, my hope is that you will get a better understanding of me as a person and what my values are. I will tell you more about myself after the list. Every one of these actually occurred to me: 1. This is a dating site, and that is what I am here to do: date. I am not here to be your friend, I am here because I want a steady long term relationship. Yes, friendship is an important part of any good relationship, but making friends is not why I am here 2. Yes, I know its taboo to say this, but a good long term relationship involves having amazing sex. There, I said it! I am not looking for hook-ups, I am just being honest about what a good relationship involves. I am not going to wait for marriage 3. If you can't go out on a Friday or Saturday night because you always go hang with your parents on the weekends… you're not ready to date 4. Unless you are a real princess, please don't act like one. Your sudden remembrance of minor problem you had hours ago, does not trump my need to get work done. It's not that I don't care to hear and talk about what happened during your day, it's just that grown-ups know how to prioritize. We all have lives, and I can't just stop mine for every little thing 5. When you ask me to buy expensive tickets to a show, please don't show up two hours after our dinner reservations and 30 minutes after the show started, without so much as a phone call. And yes, things happen in life, but you should at a minimum apologize for standing me up and wasting my money. It's amazing what a simple "I'm so sorry" can do 6. When we are out on a date, and I leave you for a few minutes to go to the bathroom, it is NOT alright to give your phone number to some guy that hits on you. If you wouldn't like it if I did it to you, then I probably won't like it either 7. Don't blame me for having feelings and being hurt when you do something terrible to me. Again, a simple apology for when you make a mistake will go a long way. But blaming me for actually caring… not cool 8. If you really don't think I am the right guy for you, it's OK. Just say so. You don't have to make up some story, keep canceling and changing our dates, etc. Just tell me, I would rather know, so I can make other plans for my time 9. When we go out on a date and you have one of the best times of your life, and you tell me as much… you really don't have to back-peddle to "save face" and start playing coy. Dating isn't a zero-sum game, it's OK to have a great time. I am intentionally trying to show you a good time, that is my goal. Please don't punish me for doing something good for you 10. If you are a recovering drug addict, I am in full support of your desire to stay off drugs and make a better life for yourself. However, 10 years of ecstasy and meth will change you in ways that are not good for maintaining a stable healthy relationship. For any given relationship issue that arises, odds are the problem is with you and not your partner. I am sorry, but after this experience I simply must take ex-drug addicts off my dating list. Please do not contact me if this fits you About me: I am an owner of a small but successful and growing engineering firm. I do travel for a few days several times every month. I am an inventor with several patents, and a book author several times over. I am drug free, don't smoke, and have eaten a pescitarian (fish and veggies) diet for roughly the last 18 years. I have three college age kids that I raised by myself. My hobby is social dancing, salsa, swing, tango… I love it all. So yes, I can literally sweep you off your feet on the dance floor! If you would like to know anything else, just ask!

His interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Dancing, Running, Skiing, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


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Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Anywhere there is live music and good dancing!

Favorite things

TV/Movies: for 5 years I didn't own a television. Now I have one, but only use it for watching movies; Food: mostly Asian foods and I like it spicy! I am a pescatarian (fish and veggies).

For fun

I am an active social dancer and currently learning Foxtrot and Hustle. I love to watch live music and hang out with my friends! Also like to travel and recently been to Europe, Mexico, the Caribbean, Canada, and China.

Last read

The last series of books I read were by Jeff Shaara. He writes about historical events from the perspective of the people who were there at the time. I found this unique perspective very interesting and fascinating!

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 3'11" (119cms) to 7'11" (241cms)
Body type: Slender No preference
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
I own a small electrical engineering firm that conducts 3-D computer simulations for high-voltage electrical safety.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: I'll tell you later No preference
Wants kids: I'll tell you later No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Faith: Atheist No preference
Languages: English No preference
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Most of my education came from the US Military where I studied advanced electronics. I also have 4 years of college and I'm very proud to have several patents under my name and am working on bringing those patents to the market.
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