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43 year old woman | San Antonio, TX, USA | Seeking men 35-54 in Texas, United States

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'10" (177cms)
No Way
More Skipper than Barbie...

In her own words

Let me begin by mentioning that every time I hear Dr. Neal of EHarm say "soulmate" my mind immediately drifts to thoughts of something that Satan himself slowly stirs into his morning beverage. Anyhoo... Kind of a big nerd over here... the kind that doesn't look like a big nerd. A happy, independent type with quite a few great friends. The kind that works with challenging people by choice, studies people, and really loves people. However, I spent many years in school with books, went back to school to cuddle with books and I find solace in them. Got a voracious appetite for knowledge. Consequently, after a long day of nonstop interaction with people I turn into a bit of an introvert. The prospect of coming home, driving into the garage, wheeling up the drawbridge behind me, activating the laser beams atop the heads of the spiny crocodiles living in the moat seems mighty inviting. Not gonna lie. As for dating, I feel a bit like Margaret Mead, 2014 version, conducting some kind of social-anthropological experiment among the rest of the cautiously optimistic single people. Mostly I laugh. At myself. If you're my kind of guy you won't have a problem with me traveling alone or often. It was not too long ago I wandered into Romania or Mozambique out of unrepentant curiosity. (There were a few other places my mother warned me not to go... then she went to, oh, Papua, Burma, Tasmania, Aconcagua... she’s like something out of a Stegner novel.) These days my travels run more to conferences in Filthadelphia via Calizona to see family. More about you? Ideally you are fun and happy with a great deal of energy and in possession of a sense of adventure. And probably not much of a filter. Intact frontal lobes, yes. Political correctness? No. You know what you like. You get it. You might even consider the descriptor "eccentric" a compliment or something to which you aspire. You have sincere passion in life. Somewhere, I don't much care, in the top 3-5, I will rank. You make me giggle with your wit, and you're on the dismissive side when it comes to your intellect and capabilities. You understand that I have little patience with a man who needs constant reassurance, who cannot trust me, or who needs to be entertained. If I give you my affections, they are yours alone. Really? You're well above average in every respect, you're even exceptional, yet you do not cause people to feel uncomfortable. You waste no time being small. In fact, you are kind, courtly and courageous. Not bravado. Courage. The fact of being near you alternately thrills me and calms me to my center. You've never lost a sense of wonder of the vastness of the world, what is yet left to discover, and where you'd like to go next. On balance, you intuitively know the sublime pleasure of an afternoon spent reading and napping in delightfully close proximity to someone you adore... Congruence and discernment. That which comes out of your mouth matches the cadence of your feet. Bob Marley said it best when he mused, "The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman’s love with no intention of loving her." You implicitly know the difference between a sincere, heartfelt apology intent on healing versus feeble “I’m Sorry” statements lobbed like lead zeppelins which paradoxically poison and do more harm. Veritas: this will be entirely worthwhile to find that person who is wicked awesome... he who challenges me and helps me grow. And I, you. I'll make the wager... you know... take the risk... double-down on a soft twenty... that is, if you will. Let’s be brave. Oh, and you hate goat cheese and trick food as much as I do. Or you'll smile patiently when I make a big deal about the goat cheese, time and again. Winks are kind of lame, okay? Don't be like Wile E. Coyote and drop the anvil on your own head.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Political interests , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Dogs

A French bulldog who is a lovable but filthy barnyard beast eats and sleeps here. In September, a small, cute 9.5 year old rescue showed up thanks to our pal Kinky Friedman, Aunt Nancy and the Utopia Animal Rescue near Kerrville.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

I lived in Spain and Mexico and some great US cities. Travelled all over the world. I figure my favorite place to visit will be the next one. I like being right here, right now, too.


Emory University, Atlanta, GA

Favorite things

Driver's seat selfies as profile pics, the "bloatee," lazy grammar, drunks, men who want a woman who can change from jeans to a little black dress (degree of difficultly: 0), this ubiquitous "glass half full," traffic, Obama voters - hilarious.

For fun

Something awesome. That's right. Quite often that means pointless loafing and blissful languor. Sitting still and breathing. Reading. Like that.

Last read

The Economist. Admittedly, there are tear sheets from September Vogue shoved between the juicy bits about ISIS and Vlad Putin, the hot mess that the NSA continues to be, the coming "election" process, et al.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'10" (177cms) 6'0" (182cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type: Slender Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Auburn / Red No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Never Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
I extinguish people with my thumbs. The Mossad consider it an art form.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
11th generation American on my father's side (English/Norman), Permian Basin West Texan (French/Irish) on my mother's side. Makes for a fascinating DAR tea.
Faith: Other No preference
The Dude Abides.
Languages: English, Spanish English
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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