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48 year old man | Bakersfield, CA, USA | Seeking women 35-51

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Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (More than 3)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Latino / Hispanic
Body type:
A few extra pounds
5'9" (175cms)
Buddhist / Taoist
No Way
Social Drinker
Hello and welcome to the world that is me. I...

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Hello and welcome to the world that is me. I got really busy and had to take care of my business So I was fine not dating for a few years, but now I would like someone in in my life. I'm looking for someone who can see eye to eye on an intellectual, emotional ,physical level. Hopefully a long term , relationship. I've started a new out look on life, really trying to improve my self, losing weight and eating healthy, working out . I rarely drink ,just don't need those empty cals. But if out at a dance or on the town with some pals why not. So here I am hoping to meet some new people, explore this world of mysterious women from Venus. I really don't think were that different from each other . We just have to meet and be honest with each other and to ourselves, and realize that everyone likes what they like and it is what it is. So we meet and make a connection or move on to the next. I'm gonna be real with anyone taking the time to read further. I know that I might not be "your type" and you might not be mine. But maybe their is something about you that makes me want to know more , and that something is different for each person. We all have something to offer to the world and we all can learn something new everyday. So maybe I can meet that woman from Venus and realize she's a great person who's positive and knows what she wants. I could learn something new , your perspective on an topic(s). Does not mean your gonna change my mind but the discussion and banter could be enlightening. I know that their are some great women out there , but if your into mind games and drama please move on Next topic -things I like to do. I have 4 great sons and family is important to me, BBQ's just hanging out, cooking for them, going to movies with my sons . I also like beach weekend getaways, that salty breeze fills the soul with new life. Day trips with no destination just get out and see something new like Yosemite or the Sequoias. Hiking the Kern mountains or in our back yard behind Heart park. I enjoy going to the movies/ coffee. Dancing , but I have't been for a long time. One thing most peculiar that I would like to find is a woman who puts a priority on music and being creative. This is a HUGE part of my essence. I know at my age it my seem immature , but you must understand. I feel music can be just fun to listen to (feel the beat and shake your butt and move your feet like at the club.) and yes I agree, but at times it can reach deep into your soul and revitalize you from inside, connect with you on a spiritual level. I know out there somewhere , women like this exist. I listen to a lot of obscure music on Youtube and these women write comments speaking of this connection to music. It keeps me hopeful that I might meet someone here that feels the same way. Also the part about being creative, this can take many different outlets. Just as long as you put your heart and soul into something that your trying to convey something you MUST do to feel alive. This all about my quirks, can you look at a painting and just stare at it, and have it move you in ways you cannot explain? If you have something that no one gets , this is how I feel, if sounds foolish to you well I can understand, your looking for some other type of guy. But if your reading this and it makes sense then contact me.

His interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing cards , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Fish

I like Dogs

Favorite hot spots


Favorite things

Big Bang Theory - Walking Dead- Modern Family- Amazon prime movies. Music of all kinds ,just depends on my mood, but almost all music.

For fun

I enjoy going to the movies getting a drink and great conversation. I enjoy art and painting/ drawing. Or any kind of self expression. Also getting back into cycling just getting back into it. Got my road bike on the trainer. Dancing/hiking

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  Him What he is looking for
Height: 5'9" (175cms) 4'10" (147cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Brown Grey
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Other profession Other profession
I work at night ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. I work a rotating schedule, so I work some weekends and some off. Just depends. I know this is hardest part of my life.
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 No preference
Relationship: Divorced Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (More than 3) Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Background / Values
Ethnicity: Latino / Hispanic Asian, Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Faith: Buddhist / Taoist No preference
I live as close to the Buddhist faith as I can for non vegertarian. I except all beliefs and do not impose my thoughts on anyone, It is my contention that all faiths are predicated on similar desires for there followers, be good , do no bad.
Languages: English No preference
Education: Some college No preference
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