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cjnatlanta

41 year old man | Atlanta, GA, USA | Seeking men 30-50 within 50 miles

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Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Wants kids:
No
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Please be over 35. No offense to anyone born...

In his own words

Please be over 35. No offense to anyone born after 1979, but you gotta draw the line somewhere. As I have gotten older, I have understood that it can be very liberating to shed away many of the attitudes and behaviors that I (and many of us) adopted as a young gay man. Often, when we are in our 20's we value the "gay cliches" (hot gym body, magazine looks, expensive cars, houses, clothes, the "right" friends, dance clubs, et cetera). Growing up in a world that did not send us positive messages about our sexuality (for many of us) did tremendous damage to how we felt about ourselves as valuable human beings. When we were young, some of us tried to make up for these negative thoughts by becoming the hottest, most in shape, sought after man in the club. Others felt that a nice car, expensive house, or great career could be what finally defined us as a valuable person. However, as we age, we suddenly find ourselves at a fork in the road. Some of us follow the path that leads left and the others make the decision to go right. Those who go left are the men who never move beyond that unauthentic value system they created for themselves in their twenties. And many men try as hard as they can to hold onto it because the thought of losing the body, looks, and the other things that they thought made them valuable can be extremely terrifying. So they continue down this path of desperation, never realizing what lies on the other path. Those who go right swallow the bitter pill that the life we had in our twenties slowly begins to escape us. We sense that we aren't getting the looks from other guys that we used to get. We see that it is much harder to keep a decent body than it used to. And we realize that there is so much more to life than what is so often the focus of the gay scene. I've swallowed the bitter pill and taken the road that leads right. I decided to go on a journey of personal growth, to move beyond all of those phony things I thought made me a valuable human being. It has been the greatest experience of my life. It's a journey, and I will never finish it. However, I feel so much more liberated to be my own individual (no matter how different or weird or strange anyone else thinks I am). I prefer to meet another man who understands where I am coming from. For me, there should be mental, emotional, and physical chemistry. And I would certainly not expect that to develop until meeting in person. Online photos and conversations are nice introductions, but knowing if you have found your man requires a lot of one-on-one time. Thank you for reading. CJN

His interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Exploring new areas

Sports & exercise

Weights / Machines


I exercise 3-4 times per week.


Sign

Virgo

Pets

I have Dogs

Political views

Very Liberal

Favorite hot spots

My oven.

College

Georgia Institute of Technology, Atlanta, GA

Favorite things

My Jack Russell Shelby

For fun

I'm a true independent. I have very few close friends who are near and dear to me. However, when I'm not with them, I enjoy time with myself - reading, painting, working out, cardio. I'm not a total weirdo (just slightly), but I like my "me time".

Last read

Barron's Guide to Calculus

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  Him What he is looking for
Appearance
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Lifestyle
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: No No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Faith: I'll tell you later No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree No preference
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