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deepopenwater

42 year old man | Berkeley, CA, USA | Seeking women 29-45 within 200 miles

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Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Wants kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
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In his own words

I was thinking of what to say here when it occurred to me that I recently wrote an email to a buddy who was feeling down about growing older and questioning whether he was having any impact on the world. I think my response to him is the best summary of who I am and what I believe. “Seriously, but I think you should take a step back. Looking at the big picture, by which I think you mean being a small spec in a giant universe and whether your existence matters at all in that scenario is the wrong way to think about things in my opinion. I think two important things change that thought process, one is that you should consider that, in the absence of being religious, and frankly in the words of none other than the Dalai Lama, your primary purpose in life is to maximize your happiness. Secondly, while acknowledging that you are just a very small piece in an enormous puzzle, you do your part and contribute to the overall health of the universe by being a force for good and doing right by others, nature and the world around you. This is important and it gives you a goal-a daily goal, by which to think about what you can do in the giant grand scheme of things. And dont forget love-love is the greatest thing. Love is the universe's gift to you and in loving others and yourself you give back to the universe and life. Love is the most important "thing" in the universe. Never loose sight of that. And you have love in your life with Cari, so cherish that. You cant change your relative size to the universe, but you can change your view of your role in it. I also suggest looking at life in reverse-what do you want to have said at your funeral? What will be your epitaph? Your legacy? Then work backwards from there to guide your life today so that you are worthy of what you hope is said of you or what you achieved. For me, I want to make sure that I suck all the marrow out of life and come skidding into home plate exhausted by utterly delighted. And lastly, don’t let your security now in your job rob you of your opportunity to get the most out of your time here on the planet-go and do what you dream of.” So what am I looking for? A woman who is living their life out loud, who is passionate about at least one thing (I think being passionate enables you to feel life more deeply), who doesn’t let other peoples perceptions of them shape their actions and who has the courage of their convictions. Lastly, a woman who wants to, as Robert Browning once said “Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be!” As I write this Im reminded of a very sage statement made by none other than my brother many moons ago-"Its not about how they make you feel, its about how you make them feel about themselves that is important". That is really the crux of a successful relationship.

His interests

Camping , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Other types of exercise, Skiing


I exercise 5 or more times per week.


Sign

Aquarius

Pets

I have Dogs

I like Exotic Pets, Fish

I inherited a one-eyed, overweight, flatulent pug who Im convinced is the Buddha reincarnated as a dog. I always thought I would have some big dog, but along comes this gal and she stole my heart.

Political views

Non-conformist

Favorite hot spots

Upcountry Bali, Turkey, Thailand (love the Sanctuary on Haad Tien Beach, Koh Phangan), Marakech, wine country (Barossa Valley is my favorite), BurningMan, "The Vista" on Mt. Tam, anytime Im rowing on flat water, windsurfing the North Shore of Maui

College

Cornell University, Ithaca, NY

Favorite things

Mexican Food!, Indian Food, great kissing, hand massages (heck, any massage!), great wine (love Rioja and a Barossa Valley Shiraz), deep friendships with people I respect, laughing my ass off, down time, up, up time!

For fun

Rowing, Dancing, travel (57 countries so far), collecting art from around the world, Reggae, being an entrepreneur and creating companies, definitely laughing, pushing the limits of life and top of the list-feeling deeply connected to my partner.

Last read

Hmmm, I read The Week and Wired cover to cover. That takes up most of my free reading time. Favorite Books-The Prophet (I keep copies to give to friends who havent read it yet) Jonathan Livingston Seagull (its the reason Im an entrepreneur)

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  Him What he is looking for
Appearance
Height: 6'3" (190cms) 3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Light brown No preference
Lifestyle
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Executive / Management No preference
Income: $150,001+ No preference
Relationship: Never Married No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Someday No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree No preference
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