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43 year old woman | Fremont, CA, USA | Seeking men 39-49 within 30 miles


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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1)
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'5" (165cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
There’s no next time. It’s now or never.

In her own words

Even on the rainiest of days, I’ve got a sparkle in my eye and can easily be convinced to drop work and play hooky. I’m a career girl by necessity and not out of love for working, but I’ve got a free-spirited side to me too. I love pushing boundaries. Tired of meeting BOYS who tell me what I want to hear, make and break promises, and aren’t ready for something serious. I am not interested in most guys and perhaps that is what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special. I am energetic, analytical, fun, and live my life with passion. I am a feminine girly-girl, but not prissy... I was raised with all boys. I feel sexy regardless of what I wear, because sexiness comes from within. I have a pure heart and am flirty and playful; Sweet with an edge... I am attracted to intelligent men who can hold their own in a relationship and can communicate or can at least be open with me. I prefer men who are not rough around the edges…although you might have a bit of an edge. I like to be challenged. The perfect man for me is kind, intelligent, and can challenge me to be my best. I like it when a man feels comfortable around me because he is comfortable with who he is, flaws and all. I love kissing and the feeling of being in love. I need to feel chemistry with someone but chemistry to me isn’t just about physical attraction, it’s about connecting with someone on a deeper level. I want someone who "gets" me. Top 10 Reasons Why I Would Be Your Best Girlfriend Ever: 1. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff. 2. You will never, ever compete with me because I'd rather be in love, than be right. 3. You will see me smile a LOT. 4. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately unexpectedly. 5. You will not feel like we are joined at the hip because I will respect your need for space. 6. You will feel like a man with me and feel like Prince Charming. 7. You will never hear me say “Do I look fat?” 8. I am witty and flirty and fun to be with. I don't worry about what others think. 9. You will feel open and comfortable sharing with me, never judged. I will be your truth serum. 10. You rarely, if ever, will hear these words: “I’m not in the mood”.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Auto racing / Motorcross, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Hockey, Inline skating, Other types of exercise, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

.I love dogs. I miss having one at home!

Political views


Favorite hot spots

I love the energy of the city and exploring new restaurants from fine dining to authentic holes in the long as there is great food. Traveling isn't something I've been able to do but I'd love to meet someone who loves to travel.


California State University, East Bay, Hayward, CA

Favorite things

Loving deeply, living passionately, music, laughing, generosity, being a mother, and my little girl, my BFFs, kissing passionately, driving fast, the ocean, free spirits, hippies, fine dining, and a well-prepared meal, prepared by someone else.

For fun

I love spending quality time with my beautiful girl and friends. Music is a huge passion of mine and I get lost in it. I work out often, read a lot, and some days I love to do absolutely nothing by myself.

Last read

Barbie's Pet Shop, The Alchemist

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'5" (165cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type: Slender Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Green No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design
I've been in IT for 15 years and work for a large software company. I specialize in providing data analytics for multiple IT support teams. I also coach IT leaders on how to use data to manage their teams more effectively.
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1) No preference
Wants kids: Not sure Definitely, Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian, Other
of French descent
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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