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41 year old woman | Arlington, VA, USA | Seeking men 39-52 within 15 miles

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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'4" (162cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Looking for substance

In her own words

Fun, active, sweet and down-to-earth Midwestern girl-next-door who values substance over surface. While careers are important, I am more interested in your character. Of course, if you're easy on the eyes with a big, friendly grin and a killer sarcastic sense of humor, please advance to the front of the line. ;) Have to admit, I find this site and all you DC overachievers a bit overwhelming at times. While I wouldn't call myself a 'slouch', it seems like you’re all waking up at 5am to train for your next triathalon, studying for your second (or third) Masters degree, reading the Wall Street Journal and satisfying your addiction to NPR, eating a Paleo diet ...all while planning your next skydiving trip over Machu Pichu, the pictures from which will be posted on Match the very next day. Doesn't anyone just come home from work anymore, kick off their shoes and watch Top Chef; maybe enjoy a nice dinner with friends on the weekend and catch a movie now and then? I'm smart, kind-hearted, a little sassy, and often sarcastic. I'm comfortable letting you hold the door open for me but I'll forgive you when you forget. I enjoy an action-adventure movie now and then, almost as much as my favorite romantic comedy. I fight fair, I can program my own remote control, I actually scan through the owner's manual when I get a new gadget, I play well with others, and while I am given to planning vs. spontaneity, I make the best of it if things don’t turn out as planned. If we meet in person, I will look like the photos I have posted here, and I hope I will make you laugh at least a couple of times. Full disclosure: not a big fan of camping ... It's a spider thing, and hopefully you can overlook that. (I previously owned a vintage '69 Scotty camper that drew a crowd of admirers wherever it went (see my profile photos), but I never actually used it for camping, only for my side business.) Also recently started running with the C25K app, and am liking it more than I ever thought I would! You will likely be able to run circles around me; but on the bright side, you will have a woman chasing after you ... literally. :) My ideal date night is a low-key night in with you and a good bottle of red, wrapped up in blanket outside under the stars or wrapped up in each other in front of your fireplace (or mine!) watching a movie. (Quick sidebar: Won't settle for anyone less than an incredible kisser. Seriously. Someone else at some point in your life has confirmed your skill in this area.) I actually think a lot can be told from a kiss. Hoping to find an attractive, charismatic, charming but genuine guy to share my "last first kiss." I work in financial development for a large non-profit and have 3 fantastic, energetic kids in their tweens (twin girls, and a son) who keep me busy and make me laugh every day. I also have a small baking business on the side (the cheesy username 'cupcake' makes sense now, right?). Happy to keep you in steady supply of treats in exchange for kisses that leave me weak in the knees. Bonuses awarded if you help clean up the kitchen. :) I believe there is no substitute for a casual in-person meeting to explore our chemistry and see if there's a spark. Have met many nice people here, but ultimately looking for a long term relationship, not a pen pal. Email me and then let's continue this conversation in person!

Her interests

Alumni connections , Book club , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Dogs, Fish

Love me, love my dog Biscuit -- a 6 year old King Charles Cavalier. He's getting a little too comfortable sleeping on your side of the bed, so we need to correct that soon!

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Any museum on the Mall, bike rides in Rock Creek Park or along GW Parkway, strolling through Old Town Alexandria, taking in a play at Arena Stage, picnic dinner at Wolftrap, anyplace where I can get a fresh lobster dinner!


Ball State University, Muncie, IN

Favorite things

Spending a few weeks each summer on the Maine coast; it brings out the very best in me & has become an annual tradition. Hiking, biking, running, sailing (crew member, not captain), popcorn from Garrett's, reading, travel, can you teach me to golf?

For fun

It's really not about WHAT I am doing so much as WHO I am spending it with. I'm pretty easy to please - especially when someone else is doing the planning!

Last read

Mostly fiction, but some non-fiction, too. Big history buff. I belong to a neighborhood book club, but mostly go to have a glass of wine with my friends. ;)

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Blue No preference
Hair: Dark blonde No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist No preference
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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