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41 year old woman | Columbia, SC, USA | Seeking men 32-42

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Her details

Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (3)
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
Black / African descent
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
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In her own words

Be sane, be real, be creative, be assertive and lets have fun while falling for one another!! Here's the simple bottom line for me. I have an excellent job, an awesome life, fairly decent work/life balance and just simply want someone to share life and its experiences with. I feel like life is better when shared. I'm not looking for someone to "complete" me.... I think I'll show up to the table "whole" :-) I just want someone who truly wants to invest the time and energy to get to know me and cultivate a healthy, honest, real connection/relationship. That's about as simple as I can put it into words. While "winks" are cute.. I'd much prefer a brief note. That's more appealing to me. I am not too keen on ppl without pics. I have a high visibility job and have pictures so why can't you? He/she who has nothing to hide..hides nothing. non-negotiables are 1. Must be honest 2. Have character and integrity 3. Some form of spirituality -aka- a belief system in a higher power 4. Treats not only myself but others with respect and kindness ( sailor mouths need not apply) 5. FUN FUN FUN.... ( I love travel, adventure, expoloring new places, great food, meeting new people)

Her interests

Dining out , Movies/Videos , Exploring new areas , Playing cards , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Dancing, Other types of exercise, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


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Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

caribbean, Dubai, Africa , Morocco, Spain ... Rome, Paris. I think Paris is Romantic, but Italy is definitely SEXY! Next stops are Chile, Argentina, never taken a cruise.. hopefully I'll have a special person to accompany me on that one.

Favorite things

I'm complex yet simple. I just enjoying whatever moves me in that moment. I'm fairly physically active, enjoy racquetball, running with my boys, swimming, hitting the beach ( love the sun and warm weather).

For fun

Love aerobic activity, cooking, and doing whatever we feel we want to do! I travel abroad at least 2 times a year. Would love a travel partner. Then sometimes just staying warm in bed snuggling is the order of the day. Kicking back watching LMN.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (3) No preference
Wants kids: I'll tell you later Someday, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Background / Values
Ethnicity: Black / African descent Black / African descent, East Indian, Middle Eastern, White / Caucasian
I am open to all ethnicities. The color of your skin certainly doesn't define who you are as a person. Nor does it guarantee a "fit". Step outside of social norms and comfort zones and search for who's the best mate not perfect shade of color.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Other, Christian / Other
My thing on religion is simple Just Believe in a higher power.
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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