The Crazy Way We Met!
Our readers share the unbelievable but totally true stories of how they met their sweeties.
ost of us have those strange almost-met-someone moments: Stuck in rush-hour traffic, you make eyes in the rearview mirror at the cutie behind you… or walking your sister’s dog while she’s out of town, you find the pup, well, strongly drawn to a poodle whose owner is adorable… Often, these incidents don’t lead anywhere, but for some of our lucky Happen readers, they were the start of something very, very good. Read their inspiring stories, and be open to meeting your next honey in a most unusual way.
We met at a party we weren’t invited to!
“My best friend’s brother was having a gala graduation party. She invited me last minute to keep her company, like the day of — seriously. My guy was also invited the night
before — also a last-minute attendee. He met my friend’s brother out at a bar. And her brother, after a couple beers, boasted: ‘Come to my party tomorrow night, open bar!’ This wasn’t the type of party you just show up to. It was white-glove service and the invitations were printed, like wedding invites! There was a champagne fountain and a dessert show in the middle of the dance floor. When I got there, I didn’t even have a seat card. I saw an empty seat at my now-husband’s table and asked if I could sit there. He said, yes… four years later, I said ‘I do!’”
|“Our first date was a funeral—can’t get much worse than that!”|
—Liss Gallotta, Riverdale, NJ
He replied to my profile…which I didn’t post
“I was dating someone my friends hated. You know the story: ‘He’s not good enough for you, you’re too kind-hearted for such a jerk!’ So without telling me, they put me on Match.com to prove a point — that there was someone better out there for me. They totally went behind my back — I mean, I was in a relationship! All the incoming emails responding to my profile showed up as spam (which I immediately deleted). Somehow, one email got through, from a guy named Rich. For some reason, his email fascinated me and I agreed to meet him for a casual cup of coffee. That day, everything just clicked. We knew from day one, we were meant to be together — forever. We talked and laughed and I think by the end of the date we were finishing each other’s sentences. We've even talked seriously about eloping! I guess my friends were right — my ex wasn’t good enough for me!”
—Sara Govatos, Weehawken, NJ
“We were trapped on the subway together”
“Last year, around 8:30 a.m., I got on the subway as usual. I had my nonfat latte and new issue of Vogue in tow and was looking forward to a thirty-minute commute uptown. The train approached the first stop, but came to a halt underground between stops. I sat there calmly for 5 minutes, but as it approached 9 a.m., I began to worry. The conductor came on the loudspeaker and said there was a small fire at the next stop, and our train was being detained. That’s when Tony, a handsome guy in a suit across from me, let out a sigh of disgust. I responded, ‘At least it’s Friday!’ He smiled, and we started chatting. The train finally continued on, but before we parted ways he asked for my number. We had dinner at a brick-oven pizza place that evening and things took off from there!”
—Gianna Catrone, New York City
“I was being set up with his friend”
“My friend Joanne was dying to set me up with her pal John’s friend. Joanne has good taste, so I let her play matchmaker. I didn’t know anything about the friend but I had heard John’s name enough in the past to feel comfortable. John told Joanne that he had a
friend for me — he said, ‘He’s smart, funny, good looking…’ I trusted his taste so I gave Joanne my number to give to John to give to his friend. When John called to sell his friend to me, we ended up on the phone for hours. We ended our conversation with the agreement that I’d go on a blind date with his friend the next night. But, when my doorbell rang the next night, I was surprised to see John there with flowers! He said that I was ‘just too good to give away to some other guy.’ And I have to admit I was glad he did take that initiative!”
|I was surprised to see John there with flowers!|
—Kristina Katsoulas, Long Island, NY
“We met at a wake”
My boss’s mother passed away, and I attended the service. I didn’t really know anyone there, except for a couple of the guys in IT. I felt funny signing the condolence book but figured I ought to. The woman ahead of me turned and handed me the pen. She said: ‘I hate signing in to these kinds of things… I don’t know what to say about my ex’s great aunt.’ I smiled and said, ‘I don’t know what to say either — my boss’s mom.’ Later, after talking with my boss, I saw that woman again, off in the corner alone. I said something really corny like, ‘Come here often,’ and we both stifled a laugh. We ended talking amongst lily plants. We’re still together and we joke that our first date was a funeral — can’t get worse than that!”
—Peter Smithers, Pittsburgh, PA
Christine M. Coppa is a freelance writer based in New York City.