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43 year old woman | Chatham, NJ, USA | Seeking men 42-46 within 25 miles

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Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (2)
Wants kids:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'7" (170cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
looking for the one I click with

In her own words

While I've met some really nice guys and made a few great friends on the site I've yet to find my "match". In rewriting this, I hope to convey a better understanding of who I am and ideally what I'm looking for in a relationship. I enjoy a mix of playful banter and deep introspection. I love the experience of fun, playful texting but find connecting by phone in between dates is key for me. I like looking into someone's eyes, and not in a staring contest sorta way. The intimacy of holding hands while walking speaks volumes. Laughing with someone until we struggle to catch our breath is mandatory. I'm looking to have a relationship where we both click and then enjoy the experience for as long as it lasts. Three things I love are music, rock climbing and writing. There's something about live music... I'm not sure if it's the sound of the music, the words or the energy of the crowd, that just kinda fills my soul. I'm a newbie at indoor rock climbing... since I'm a bit competitive and believe I can master anything, when I'm up high and suddenly a wave of fear hits me... there's nothing like pushing through it that makes me want to go back again and again. As for writing, words mean everything to me... and at the same time, they really mean nothing in the grand scheme of life... writing will forever be my passion. I'm someone who sees opportunity and adventure in trying new things. And because I'm always changing and evolving, I understand my tastes change too. Things I once didn't like, I'm eager to try again and experience with new eyes. I'm looking for someone who feels the same way. If something resonates with you, shoot me an email.... Good luck in your search!

Her interests

Book club , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Shopping/Antiques

Sports & exercise

Running, Tennis / Racquet sports

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Fish

I'm a dog lover and plan to get one when the time is right!

Political views


Favorite hot spots

waking up earlier than my children and enjoying the silence... anywhere my friends are... enjoying new experiences and new people, no matter where I am... my home


College of Staten Island of the City University of New York, Staten Island, NY

Favorite things

writing, pondering thoughts of life, watching my children be silly, singing my favorite songs, sleeping late when my children are away for the weekend, savoring a delicious meal, laughing with friends and my ultimate favorite thing... chocolate.

For fun

On a regular basis, what I like to do for fun is... eat at new restaurants, read a book by the fire, run, write about everything and anything, entertain lots of friends and cook new recipes.

Last read

The Light Between Oceans, The New York Times

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'9" (175cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type: About average No preference
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist No preference
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (2) No preference
Wants kids: No Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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