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45 year old woman | North Bend, WA, USA | Seeking men 42-51 within 45 miles

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Her details

Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2)
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'4" (162cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Life's a Game Made for Everyone, And Love is the Prize!!

In her own words

Hi~ Just a few days left here. I have nothing else to loose than being brutally here it goes! Being 45 and trying to date is tough. I'm almost out of a 'criteria' bracket first of all. "Seeking women 30-45" Most men my age want someone under the age of 40, and still hoping for kids. Or, want a woman established enough in a high end career she can run off and travel to one of the 20 countries they have each traveled to in their past but can now enjoy together. Am I sounding like I should grab a drink and a party hat and enjoy a table for one at the pity party of my choice? lol! I don't mean to... but truth be told, it is tough at my age to date. I was in a long term marriage and never thought I would walk down the path to a divorce attorneys office. But my ex decided he wanted a 'do over' life, so at 42 I became a single mom to my teenage boys and MY new life began. I was mostly a stay at home mom very active in PTA, soccer and the likes for my boys while working part time accommodating everyone else's schedule. Now I am in a very rewarding career working full time while my guys are both in College and the focus is more on me. Kinda a weird place to be in after so many years. But life is good... I didn't tag along on the traveling business trips because raising my own kids was more important to me than leaving them behind. I always thought stability for them was more important, and it was my job to raise them, not a nanny or grandma. Looking back, I feel I made the right choice. They are well adjusted great young men that had a solid foundation and have strong family values. They are supportive of me to date and meet someone new. However, one has said, I am not allowed to date anyone who is an ass. So note to self. ;) I am family oriented. Any chance I have to hang with my boys or my grand nephew or niece I am all over it! I do have a great relationship with my boys grandfather... that may seem weird to some. But once you meet him and see his support of me and my guys, you'll understand why. I am blessed that I got him in the divorce. And he too, is rooting me on to dating and eventually falling in love again :-) You can see in my pictures I am happy! I run, am a Sounders fan and Season ticket holder (Go Seahawks too!!!) I do smile a lot!! Why not?? Life may have thrown me a big ol' curve ball, but I caught it and have been playing an amazing game ever since!! So.... back to dating. I am 45, I can't change that. (though most people are surprised when I tell them how old I am ) I am not well travelled (as of yet. Cabo is on the calendar in August though. Gotta start somewhere!) Kids??? I've learned to never say never! And since 95% of men on dating sites say they don't want drama, we do try to keep that to a minimum around here. My guys have had to adjust to their dads new life and how it affects them. Occasionally that means hurt feelings and anger immerses. (It is few and far between these days...but it is their reality) I am not the drama type. In fact, I have learned over the last few years...I don't do needy! So if you're insecure....I am not the woman for you. There is a lot more to who I am. My music taste is eclectic, I enjoy good wine. (no two buck chuck in my house!) I enjoy baking/cooking/grilling/ I am a people person, love entertaining and laughter is a necessity!!. Any questions... Feel free to ask. At the end of January you'll have to find me somewhere else...Maybe at a trail run, wine tasting, concert, shopping at Trader Joes...or some other site. How's that for honesty?? I am real, I laugh a lot, I cry on occasion (Yes, I got teary eyed watching Up! Someday I hope to have a love like Ellie had) and I am looking forward to what my future holds. And who may be a part of it. I've learned to play ball!! And life is a really fun game!! Good luck to all of us!! I really do believe there is someone out there for everyone and we all deserve happiness!!!

Her interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Dancing, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Dogs

I have a 3 year old choc lab named Parker.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

No 'one' place. But I enjoy Portland, Whistler, Sunny beaches, Vegas, Disneyland... Is this where I should mention a good shoe sale??! :-)

Favorite things

Spending time with my friends and family! Entertaining...big full on dinner parties, or just a BBQ in the backyard! A nice run. A good glass of wine. Yummy cheese...

For fun

I not only love my kids, I like them. So hanging with my boys is always fun. Running 5ks, going to the movies, a hike, camping, boating, going to live concerts, the theater, making dinner for a crowd, laughing, anything with my friends and family!!

Last read

Love anything by Jodi Picoult I read a lot of work related and self help books. I think that 'The Five Love Languages' should be required reading for everyone.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'11" (180cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Sales / Marketing No preference
I am an Insurance Agent, working primarily in the senior market....
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: I'll tell you later No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Associates degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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