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43 year old woman | Oakland, CA, USA | Seeking men 30-44 within 20 miles


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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'6" (167cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
A whole new approach

In her own words

I’m just going to be very straight forward. 1) I prefer to date younger and athletic guys as they tend to lead a more active and social lifestyle like I do 2) If you’re looking to “settle down” (meaning you want to just sit at home with a girlfriend rather than going out and enjoying life), you probably shouldn’t message me. However, if you’ve never been in a relationship before, you probably shouldn’t message me either 3) If you’re looking to “settle down and start a family”, you really shouldn’t message me. Kids aren’t 100% out of the picture, but I realized during my last long relationship (13 years) that I don’t need to have kids to make my life complete. I very much love my lifestyle and freedom. Not everyone needs to go down that same path 4) If you have yellow fever, definitely don’t message me. If you like the way I look, that’s obviously great, but you’re not going to find the diminutive, quiet, submissive type in me 5) If I kiss you first, then I’m probably trying to see if we have physical chemistry. I’m not asking you to marry me ;-) 6) If I ask to spend the night at your place, that doesn’t mean that I’m moving in. It probably means that I can get to work in the morning easier from your place than going back to mine first 7) I’m athletic (play softball and golf these day; D1 field hockey player back in the day) and work out 5-6 days a week. I love Cal sports, but don’t watch too much pro sports on TV since I just don’t have the time. I definitely don’t have time for fantasy sports 8) I love good beer, whiskey, and food, and hence the need to work out as much as I do ;-) 9) My schedule is generally crazy busy, but I will make time for friends, family, and you if I like you I’m looking for someone to have fun with and hopefully have it develop into a lasting relationship. Old profile... I'm looking for someone who doesn't answer with "I don't know" if I ask "what should we do today?" It doesn't need to be constantly exciting, but we should definitely be enjoying what we're doing together. Please note that relaxing is considered doing something in my book. I'm always up for an adventure whether that be traveling, going to a new restaurant or bar, checking out a band, or trying a new dish. You don't have to love everything, but you at least need to be open minded and try it. Don't limit yourself by fearing the unknown. I'm upfront and honest and hope that others are the same with me. I won't generally offer a compliment unless I truly mean it. I'm looking to expand my great circle of friends whom I would do almost anything for. One of the greatest compliments that I have ever received is "your friends are awesome, but I wouldn't have expected anything else." I was a D1 field hockey player and I love sports, both playing and watching. I'm really good about my work/life balance and am very active outside of work. I'd love to get back on the mountain, either backpacking or rock climbing, but most of my recent vacations have involved sun and water. I believe in being comfortable. Being comfortable with the one I'm with; being comfortable with my friends; eating at a hole in the wall or at a 3-hour Michelin starred extravaganza; pampered at a day spa or using that orange shovel to dig my own little "bathroom" in the back country; ordering an Ola Dubh 12 Yr Special Reserve or a Bud Light (when I need a water round); wringing out my socks during a rainy round of golf and trudging on or just laying in bed on a Sunday morning catching up on TV or the paper; and most importantly, being comfortable with myself so that I'm willing to go outside of my comfort zone in order to grow as an individual.

Her interests

Alumni connections , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing cards , Playing sports , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Golf, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I like Dogs, Fish

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Cal Memorial Stadium (though not so much this year, but I do throw a mean tailgate); a new restaurant or bar (too many to keep up with, but I try); NYC; New Orleans; Hawaii; a golf course; and anywhere my nephews are


University of California, Berkeley, Berkeley, CA

Favorite things

A great steak, a bourbon to go with it, and a good beer to chase it, not that a good bourbon needs a chaser. I love discovering new adventures with my friends and learning new things (food, places, restaurants, bars, outdoors). I'll try anything.

For fun

I'm always up for an adventure, but if I'm in town, I love sports and spending time with friends. I play softball often and golf when I can, but also enjoy watching sports with friends and a few beers.

Last read

Sadly, I don't know how to read. OK, that's not true. Otherwise, Match would be just looking at the packaging rather than knowing the ingredients.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'6" (167cms) 5'10" (177cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Black No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Financial / Accounting / Real Estate No preference
Income: $150,001+ $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No, Yes, and they live away from home
Wants kids: Not sure Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: Asian No preference
I'm Vietnamese and speak it well enough to get by at home, but I speak it with an American accent. I've described myself as a "banana". If you don't know what that means, you can ask me later.
Faith: Atheist Agnostic, Atheist, Spiritual but not religious
Languages: English, Other English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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