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44 year old woman | Carmel, NY, United States | Seeking men 40-53

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Currently Separated
Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'2" (157cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
It all starts with hello...

In her own words

I'm back online after a couple of years. I met someone great but life has taken us in different directions so I'm hoping to find success again, this time long lasting. The basics - I am an attorney (not the scary kind) and have two amazing kids who are my first priority. I like my job, adore my kids and generally enjoy life. I have my own business so time is tight but I have the flexibility of being my own boss - nice right? I laugh a lot and want someone who can laugh along with me. I'm kind and insightful and although I've been told I have a bit of an edge (just a "bit"), I choose to take that as a compliment. I look for balance in just about everything but there are some pesky contradictions....I'm terrified of heights but really want to sky dive some day (nearly went para-sailing last summer but the kids chickened out). I prefer jeans to gowns, but get giddy at the chance to dress up like a girly girl once in a while. I drive a little suv "mom truck" but in my heart I'm driving a sporty little number or true off road vehicle. I hate the cold but find myself in ice arenas and at ski slopes all winter long. You get the picture. I love hockey, like baseball and I'll watch football but don't really get the nuances so perhaps you can explain them to me. I love to exercise and when time permits I try to do it at least 3 times a week. Kickboxing, hiking and dancing are favorites. Rollerblading with the kids too. I enjoy flavors from all over the world, especially India and Asia and you'll only find fish on my plate - no terrestrial or flying meats for me. But, I have no problem if your Angus burger and my salmon burger share space on the grill - no judgment here. I prefer to hike in the Hudson Valley but will just as easily take in the sites of NYC. I do a little gardening and really enjoy it - fruits/veggies - and am happy to dig barehanded so long as I don't find any snakes. I'm forever trying to find the "thing" that will satisfy my creative impulses (not that I'm particularly "creative" - I just like to have an outlet.) I welcome a creative side in my partner. Perhaps you can help me find something that will stick. There's more to tell, but I'd prefer to share it in person. How about you? I'm looking for someone who will complement me intellectually, emotionally and physically. They are all equally important. A man who is confident without being arrogant, who enjoys a confident (also not arrogant) woman, and knows how and when to be a gentleman. I welcome and appreciate you holding the door for me but please don't be offended when I return the favor. The right guy has a positive outlook, knows who he is and enjoys experiencing new things but is just as happy relaxing with the simple comforts of friends, family and home. I'm not looking for a one sided conversation; I want an active participant sitting across from me, someone who values what I have to say and brings his own perspective. I'm direct and honest, no games. You should be too. Friendship and respect are the building blocks of a great relationship so let's see what we can build together. FYI, while my status is "currently separated", it's a technical thing only. I've been separated for over 2 years and my marriage is done, over, caput - no issues there - paperwork is in process.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Dancing, Hockey, Inline skating, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 1-2 times per week.




I have Dogs

Political views


Favorite hot spots

I love the Hudson Valley and all it offers; Boston, New England, Aruba, Hawaii, Maine, Washington DC., my fireplace in the dead of winter; my kayak and the beach in the summer


Northeastern University, Boston, MA

Favorite things

dark chocolate, a good glass of (red) wine, great chemistry, new experiences, you(?). Guilty pleasures - Project Runway and binge watching 90's re-runs (shhh, don't tell!).

For fun

All sorts of outdoor activities, giggling fits with my kids, a great book, relaxing by the fireplace, a great meal and a good glass of wine, my friends, you(?), museums, theater, movies.

Last read

Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil, A Good Place to Hide, Villa Incognito to name a few. Currently reading Gone With the Wind - shouldn't have waited this long.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'2" (157cms) 5'7" (170cms) to 7'0" (213cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Hazel No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: Legal No preference
I am an attorney but don't let that scare you... I'm a lot of fun too!
Income: I'll tell you later $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Currently Separated Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (2) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Jewish No preference
I'm more a cultural Jew than a religious one although I go to services a little more than just on the High Holy Days. My kids are being raised Catholic so, yeah I'm pretty open minded...
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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