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41 year old woman | Lynnfield, MA, USA | Seeking men 34-46 within 200 miles of Lancaster, MA

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'8" (172cms)
Christian / Catholic
No Way
LEATHER & LACE" - Tomboy seeks nice guy with an "edge." Are you sweet enough for my lace, but edgy enough for my leather?

In her own words

RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME: If you want a vapid, perky girly-girl, subservient & passive, who’ll always agree w/you, not challenge you in any way, mindlessly caters to your every need & will be an enabler to your bad behavior - look elsewhere. But if you want a shrewd, witty, intelligent partner you can converse with on many topics, who'll challenge you, who's feisty & independent, who’ll call you out on your BS & not be a doormat - keep reading. I'M THE "COOL CHICK" WHO HANGS w/THE GUYS. But don't worry - none of the guys get to take me home. I’M A TOMBOY. I prefer little to no makeup, jeans/sneakers over dress/heels, stick shift over automatic, nachos over caviar, Pats game in mancave over a gala at the Ritz. I even own a toolbelt. But I can “class it up” & hold my own when needed :) I’ve been described as “white collar intelligence, blue collar personality.” I'M FRUGAL. Do you hate it when women spend a fortune on shoes & purses? ME TOO! I eschew jewelry & designer labels, & I’m a bloodhound when it comes to sniffing out bargains. And I hate malls! POSSESSIONS & MONEY DON'T IMPRESS ME. I look at ACTIONS - THATS what reveals true character. Possessions can’t compensate for bad behavior. Rich or poor, a jerk’s still a jerk. I LOVE ROCK: Bon Jovi, Def Leppard, Whitesnake, Journey, Foreigner, REO, Pat Benatar, Heart, Bryan Adams, ZZTop, Eagles, 38 Special, Van Halen, AC/DC, Joan Jett & more. Ironically I've never lived "rocker lifestyle.” Always been smoke-drug-alcohol free. Good thing, otherwise I'd look like Keith Richards by now! SOME FAV THINGS: music, massages, reading, writing, organic & "green" products, exercising, real estate, photography, garlic, Macs, Trader Joes, WholeFoods, HGTV & Howard Stern! I'M VERY REAL, RAW, HONEST & "ANTI BS" - no games here. With me what u see is what u get. Watching my dad deteriorate over 15yrs from 2 strokes has been hardest, most life-changing thing I’ve ever endured. I CAN BE CONTROLLING, but it’s a necessity since I'm caring for my parents. Plus I’m self-employed so I answer to no one. I've never had to "share the cockpit" w/anyone, so that'll be a learning curve. But the right man will be my "co-pilot" as we navigate thru this crazy life together. I HAVE A TWISTED SENSE OF HUMOR & a goofy, mischievous side, but it's been stifled since I've been handling serious issues - overseeing Dad’s health care, managing real estate, resolving legal issues, etc. Always putting out fires. I'M A HOMEBODY. Content curled up at home. Hate bar/club scene. No quality people there. I'M SELECTIVE w/whom I allow in my life. I value quality over quantity. MY TAKE ON RELATIONSHIPS: despite my lack of experience, I have strong beliefs based on all the train wrecks I've witnessed. In addition to honesty, trust & open communication - automatic prerequisites - I feel the 3 critical things often missing in relationships (& what leads to their ultimate demise) are: respect, consideration & gratitude. If mutual respect is missing, you're doomed. Consideration for partner's needs & feelings is a must. Both must be willing to sacrifice for the good of the relationship. Then there's gratitude. When couples take each other for granted, it leads to feelings of neglect & resentment. That festers & creates emotional distance, then it's all downhill from there. MY IDEAL MAN: Confident, not arrogant. Sharp mind, soft heart. Modern thinker, old fashioned values. Knows that intangibles matter most. Has integrity - a strong moral compass guides his decisions. Lives a balanced, drama-free life & has nothing to hide. Values good health & has always been smoke/drug free. Is aware of the fragility & brevity of life & takes nothing for granted. Still believes in courtship, chivalry & romance. Knows difference between intimacy & sex. Understands the impact of his actions & knows that everything he does directly affects those closest to him.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Football, Other types of exercise, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

Always been a huge dog lover. I really miss having dogs. Can't have dogs now living on a busy street. Also my yard is too small - not enough room for big dogs to run. I plan to build a new house in a year or two, then I'll get 2 four-legged babies.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Always hated the bar/club scene. No quality people there. Not much social life now since friends married & moved away long ago. If I had a companion, I'd enjoy New England weekend trips, new restaurants, sporting events, concerts, comedy shows, etc.

Favorite things

COLOR: Purple. FOOD: Italian, Greek, Mexican, Seafood. TV: Friends, Seinfeld, Raymond, Smallville, Sex in City, Conan, SVU, Wings, Two & a Half Men, Shark Tank, The Voice, anything on HGTV. COMEDIANS: Nick DiPaolo, Denis Leary, Lisa Lampanelli.

For fun

Not much free time. Always solving problems. When I can get away, I enjoy: AUTUMN: Pats games, apple picking, biking. SUMMER: Cape Cod, rock concerts, picking fresh produce at local farms. WINTER: Hibernate! Doesn't sleeping count as an activity? ;)

Last read

I mainly read informative things. Fav topics are real estate, health, psychology & technology. If I spend time reading, I want to learn something from it. I do sometimes enjoy a good autobiography of someone who's had an interesting life.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'8" (172cms) 5'11" (180cms) to 6'8" (203cms)
Body type: About average About average, Athletic and toned, Heavyset, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Never Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Artistic / Creative / Performance Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design
Web & graphic artist. I work from home & have flex hours. It's the perfect gig for me b/c I'm a creative, independent "out-of-the-box thinker," & I don't like being on a "corporate leash." I'm also a property owner / landlord / investor / flipper.
Income: $25,001 to $35,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Not sure Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Background / Values
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian
Italian. Raised on big family meals, so I'm a "domestic diva,” good at making a house a home. Italian heritage was dominant growing up - was all about the FOOD! I’ve got many big guys named "Vinnie" in my family - father, brother, uncle, cousin, etc!
Faith: Christian / Catholic Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Raised Catholic - even survived Catholic school - but I don't really connect with it. I'm open to different faiths, beliefs & ideas. Because my heart & soul run deep, I feel I'm spiritual. I believe in a higher power, just haven't figured it all out.
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Communications & graphic arts major. Due to my ADHD, I struggled to find my way & changed majors & colleges a few times. And speaking of ADHD, I hope you're familiar with it because it's something that greatly impacts my life & my behavior.
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