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42 year old woman | Wakefield, MA, United States | Seeking men 37-52 within 150 miles of Worcester, MA

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Probably not
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'8" (172cms)
Christian / Other
No Way
LEATHER & LACE" - Tomboy seeks nice guy with an "edge." ~~~~~~~~~~~ Are you sweet enough for my lace, but edgy enough for my leather?

In her own words

If you want a vapid, perky girly-girl, subservient & passive, who’ll always agree w/you, not challenge you in any way, mindlessly caters to your every need & will be an enabler to your bad behavior - look elsewhere. But if you want a shrewd, witty, intelligent partner to converse with on many topics, who's tenacious, resourceful & independent, who'll call you out on your BS & not be a doormat - keep reading. ~~~ RANDOM FACTS ~~~ I'M THE "COOL CHICK" WHO HANGS w/THE GUYS. But don't worry - none of the guys get to take me home. TOMBOY. No makeup, jeans/sneakers over dress/heels, stick shift over automatic, nachos over caviar, rock concert over opera, Pats game in mancave over gala at the Ritz. I even own a toolbelt. But I can “class it up” & hold my own when needed. Been compared to Tina Fey: smart, funny & creative w/sarcastic, sardonic edge. I'M FRUGAL. Hate when women spend a ton on shoes & purses? ME TOO! I eschew jewelry & designer labels & I’m a bargain-hunting ninja! And I hate malls. MONEY DOESN'T IMPRESS ME. It can’t compensate for bad behavior. Rich or poor, a jerk’s still a jerk. Beatles were right - can't buy love. Can't buy class or respect, either. Born/raised north of Boston. ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS & reveals your true character. Don't tell me, SHOW me. NO BS. No games here. I'm real, raw & honest. What you see is what you get. NIGHT OWL. Comatose til 10am. Ok maybe 11. :) TWISTED SENSE OF HUMOR. You've been warned. ;) I'M AN OYSTER: hard outer shell, soft pearl inside. Few have reached the pearl. I LOVE ROCK: BonJovi, Def Leppard, Whitesnake, Journey, Foreigner, REO, Pat Benatar, Bryan Adams, Heart, ZZTop, Eagles, 38 Special, Van Halen, AC/DC, Joan Jett, etc. Ironically I've never lived "rocker lifestyle.” Always been smoke-drug-alcohol free. SOME FAV THINGS: music, massages, reading, writing, organic & "green" products, exercising, real estate, photography, garlic, Macs, Trader Joes, WholeFoods, HGTV & Howard Stern! Watching my dad deteriorate over 15yrs from stroke has been hardest, most life-changing thing I've ever endured. BEEN OVERSEEING FAMILY MATTERS for years - parents' health care, managing real estate, resolving legal issues, etc., so I'm used to being in charge. Plus I’m self-employed so I answer to no one. I've never "shared the cockpit" w/anyone so that'll be a learning curve. But the right man will be my co-pilot as we navigate this crazy life together. HOMEBODY - content curled up at home. Hate bar/club scene. No quality people there. And I'm not big on travel (last flight was 1998), but I'm up for local New England trips. SELECTIVE w/whom I allow in my life. I value quality over quantity. ~~~ INGREDIENTS FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIP ~~~ HONESTY & TRUST. Importance of these can't be overstated, especially for me. I simply cannot tolerate deceit in any form. COMMUNICATION & COMPASSION. Both partners need to be heard & understood. RESPECT. Dirty laundry shouldn't be aired outside the relationship. CONSIDERATION for partner's needs & feelings. Both must be willing to sacrifice for good of relationship. GRATITUDE. When couples take each other for granted, it creates feelings of neglect & resentment. That festers & creates emotional distance. ~~~ MY IDEAL MAN ~~~ Confident, not arrogant. Sharp mind, soft heart. Modern thinker, old fashioned values. Is a gentleman, not a Lothario. Knows intangibles matter most. Has integrity & a conscience. Strong moral compass guides his decisions. Lives balanced, drama-free life & HAS NOTHING TO HIDE. Aware of fragility & brevity of life & takes nothing for granted. Believes in courtship, chivalry & romance. Sweet & kind, but not indolent or acquiescent. Has an "edge." Accountable & responsible. Knows those closest to him are most affected by his actions. Isn't looking for a maid, cook, servant, therapist or a mommy. Is a lighthouse in a storm.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games , Watching sports

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Football, Other types of exercise, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, VolleyBall, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs

Always been a HUGE dog lover. Been called "dog whisperer." I always fall for my roommate's dogs. Now I'm hoping to adopt dog of my own soon. When I build my house next year, I'll have a bigger yard, so I'll be able to have 2 or 3 canine pals.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

Always hated the bar/club scene. No quality people there. Not much social life now since friends married & moved away long ago. If I had a companion, I'd enjoy New England weekend trips, new restaurants, sporting events, concerts, comedy shows, etc.

Favorite things

COLORS: Purple & blue. FOODS: Italian, Greek, Mexican, seafood. COMEDIANS: Nick DiPaolo, Denis Leary, Lisa Lampanelli. TV: Friends, Seinfeld, Raymond, Smallville, Sex in City, Conan, SVU, Wings, Two & a Half Men, Shark Tank, Voice, anything on HGTV.

For fun

Not much free time. Always solving problems. When I can get away, I enjoy: AUTUMN: Pats games, apple picking, biking. SUMMER: Cape Cod, rock concerts, farmer's markets, clams at Clam Box. WINTER: Hibernate! Doesn't sleeping count as an activity? ;)

Last read

I mainly read informative things. Fav topics are real estate, health, psychology & technology. If I spend time reading, I want to learn something from it. I also enjoy reading a good autobiography of someone who's had an interesting life.

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Height: 5'8" (172cms) 5'11" (180cms) to 6'8" (203cms)
Body type: About average About average, Athletic and toned, Heavyset, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes: Brown Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Never Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Artistic / Creative / Performance Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design
Web & graphic artist. Work from home, flex hours. Perfect gig for me b/c I can't be on a "corporate leash." I don't do well in stuffy, corporate offices, & I don't do office politics. I'm also a landlord & I manage several residential properties.
Income: $35,001 to $50,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Probably not Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian
Italian. Raised on big family meals, so I'm a "domestic diva,” good at making a house a home. Italian heritage was dominant growing up - was all about the FOOD! I’ve got many big guys named "Vinnie" in my family - father, brother, uncle, cousin, etc!
Faith: Christian / Other Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Raised Catholic - even survived Catholic school - but I don't really connect with it. My heart & soul run deep, so I feel I'm spiritual. I believe in a higher power, just haven't figured it all out. A good friend just started a Bible study group.
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
Communications & graphic arts major. Due to my ADHD, I struggled to find my way & changed majors & colleges a few times. And speaking of ADHD, I hope you're familiar with it because it's something that greatly impacts my life & my behavior.
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