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Have kids:
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Black / African descent, Other, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'3" (160cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
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In her own words

What makes me happy: reading awesome books, laughing with family and friends, kissing my doggies, and snuggling my kitties. I'd also say good food and wine, but everyone likes that, right? I'm admittedly a little bit of a beer snob (and I love a good vodka martini), I love theatre--both local and Broadway, and dream of once again living on the beach. I am an avid road cyclist, have recently learned to ride a motorcycle, and hit the trails on my mountain bike when the weather is decent. Did I say that I like bikes? By day, I chair the English department at a private school and teach literature and creative writing. By night, well, that's all part of getting to know someone. I'm looking for someone who is passionate about his work, appreciates a good read, values family and friends, has a sense of humor, expresses himself in some creative manner, and is caring, honest, confident, emotionally mature, and forth-coming.

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Cats, Dogs

I have husky-mixes and short-haired cats--all are rescues and all are much loved.

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Favorite hot spots

Any beach or lake. I love being near the water.


Drew University, Madison, NJ

Favorite things

My favorites usually change over time, but firsts never change. Culture Club was the first band/music group that I ever loved, goldfish were my first pets, "Heidi" was the first book I read on my own, and Ebon was the name of the first boy I kissed.

For fun

Fun? Well, lots of things are fun in good company and given the right circumstances! During a recent Spartan race, I crawled through mud, which is typically not fun but happened to be fun on the day I did it with my friends.

Last read

I'm always reading, so I'd have to edit this constantly to keep up with the latest read. So how about I like Louise Erdrich, Sherman Alexie, Toni Morrison, and J.M. Coetzee just to name a few. I'm currently into Haruki Murakami.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'3" (160cms) 5'5" (165cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Education / Teacher / Professor No preference
Income: $75,001 to $100,000 No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: Black / African descent, White / Caucasian, Other No preference
African American and Polish
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
I was raised Catholic and still attend my local church because I enjoy the rituals, but nowadays I tend to find more of a sense of faith in Mother Nature and human good will.
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree No preference
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