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45 year old woman | Santa Cruz, CA, United States | Seeking men 35-55 in California, United States

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Have kids:
Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1)
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'4" (162cms)
No Way
Social Drinker
The simplest things touch me most.

In her own words

I've been told more than once I'm an alluring balance between being feminine, loving, sensual, affectionate and rational and driven. I like that. I'm an open, positive, optimistic person. I'm comfortable with intimacy and want to hear who you really are. Really. While I'm affectionate, warm and attentive in a relationship, I value and encourage personal time and fulfillment. I'm an attentive and relaxed mom always striving to ensure my daughter's happiness (she's seven, empathic, tells a good joke, knows how to climb a tree and holds her own at a sushi bar). I share her half the time with her dad, who's a great co-parent. I've dated quite a bit over the years and am looking for a full-fledged, fun grown-up; the right man with whom to share a loving, vibrant and inspired life. I'm playful, always fit, romantic, adventurous yet stable, supportive and happy with my life. I'm originally from the Peninsula. I've lived and worked locally and feel very connected here yet I'm fairly cosmopolitan having traveled around the world. I'm excited when I'm heading somewhere new, near or far; rolling with the adventure is yet another way I feel consumed and alive. I'm sophisticated in an unpretentious way and can be somewhat unconventional -- the simplest things touch me most. I'm comfortable in most settings; from ultra professional to hole-in-the-wall to international -- and I'm often seeking new good restaurants. I love cooking healthy, gourmet food, (which may sound like an oxymoron) but I like merging the two. I also like parenthesis. In general, I'm focused on buying little but doing a lot. I appreciate experiences more than things. Now, a little about you... You're intelligent, mature yet fun and playful, more on the masculine side and like to take the lead sometimes. You're confident but not arrogant, grounded and at least aim to be healthy and fit. You're ambitious yet set quality time aside for friends and family. You've most likely traveled outside the US and more outings are on your radar. You're polite to our waiter and have no idea where your phone is when you're with me… that sort of thing.

Her interests

Alumni connections , Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Playing cards , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Dancing, Other types of exercise, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


I have Cats

I like Dogs

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Most are intimate spots: Nick's, Cin Cin, Evvia, Soif on Mondays for music and oysters, Companion and Odonata on Tuesdays, Outerlands, Wayfare Tavern, picnics anywhere, The Aquarius, The Nick, orchestra seats, anything new and intriguing.


University of California, Davis, Davis, CA

Favorite things

Good warm hugs and kisses. Live music. Oysters and uni. Cold room, warm bed. Not in any particular order...

For fun

Skin still salty from the sea, walking to dinner, juxtaposition, cool art anywhere, sharing wine, going to the movies, weekends away, weeks away…

Last read

Angle of Repose, now reading Bel Canto

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'4" (162cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Financial / Accounting / Real Estate Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they sometimes live at home (1) No preference
Wants kids: I'll tell you later Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
For what it's worth, I was born at Stanford Hospital and have an English mum.
Faith: Agnostic No preference
I don't practice anything prescribed but instead practice daily being the best woman, mom and partner I can be. I'm true to my word, unpretentious, conscientious, straightforward, loyal, and kind.
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
I majored in Sociology and dabbled a little in Viticulture, Economics, Art History, Child Development, and Nutrition.
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