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38 year old woman | Virginia Beach, VA, USA | Seeking men 33-47 within 30 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
Black / African descent
Body type:
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
Wanted: a strong man who is mature, who knows how to treat a lady and how to be a leader, and can handle a woman who is an awesome catch.

In her own words

Firstly, I am a devoted Christian, which means that I strive to live my life in a manner that reflects His love of me and my commitment to Him. I have never been married, with no children. I am a professional lady, and I work harder than I need to, but I thoroughly enjoy my career. Physically, I am just under 6 feet tall and my height definitely works for me. I have a caramel-complexion and my hair is natural. I am thick, curvy, and attractive. I work-out approximately five times a week, and I take my figure very seriously. I have a witty sense of humor and I absolutely love to laugh. I have a big heart and I am a nurturer by nature. I know, very well, how to treat a man and I am one of those rare women that genuinely believes that the man should be the leader, and that his woman should not thwart his manhood or his dominance. Activities I enjoy include live theater, museums, art galleries, and the symphony, as well as movies, bowling, swimming, concerts, working out, writing extensively, reading just about anything, long steamy baths, and traveling. I also thoroughly enjoy mentally stimulating conversations. I love adventure, as I have been bungee jumping, sky coasting and want to go skydiving soon. If you are looking for casual sex or a fling, I am not interested. Please be forewarned that I have been told that my standards are too high, but I am not willing to settle. I will patiently wait for the right man who will be my rock and enhance my life with the one thing missing: love. We likely will not get along if: *you cannot speak or write proper English *you have more than 3 kids, but never been married (TOO much drama) *you don’t have a car, a job or your own place *you do not take care of your body (bad hygiene, no exercise, drug use, excessive alcohol, excessive fatty foods, sexual promiscuity) *you often become angry, have a bad attitude or a chip on your shoulder *you tell lies *you don’t communicate / can't carry a stimulating conversation (you must stimulate my mind before you can stimulate my body) *you don’t know how to have fun (uptight is kinda boring) We will likely get along great if: *you have integrity (if you don’t know what integrity really is, then you likely do not have it) *you have your own relationship with a higher power (and your faith is strong and makes you a better person) *you can be truthful at all times (even when you don’t want to be) *you are intelligent (Intellect is a MAJOR turn-on for me) *you enjoy laughing (I want a man that I can spend my life laughing with) *you recognize the need to be a quality person (and you recognize a quality woman) *you have a high sex drive in a relationship :) :) :) *you don’t play games, play the field or play with people’s emotions (because I can't play with you) Sorry for the laundry list. :( And I am sorry if it is too blunt. But, after some horrible dates, I decided that putting this out there will likely save a lot of undue headache. Besides, the right man for me must be able to handle both the intensity of my intellect and the playfulness of my personality. I know what I want in a relationship, I know all that I have to offer the right guy and I am constantly reminded that my price is far above rubies. If you feel we might get along (based on the above), then I would love to hear from you. :)

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs, Fish

Favorite hot spots

I haven't traveled as much as I'd like to. Of the traveling that I have done, I enjoyed visiting Honduras and Jamaica the most. Places that I would like to go include Rio de Janeiro, Africa and Paris.


Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY

Favorite things

Anything purple! :) Ice cold water. Saturdays, because I can sleep late. Pretty shoes that are very comfortable. Great conversation. Movies with an unexpected twist at the end. Singing. Being loved.

For fun

I am always writing something. It's a pleasant hobby of mine. I love to read, anything from novels, to articles, and magazines. I enjoy singing. I'm a bit of a movie buff, mostly suspense and dramas. I also like to swim and to bowl.

Last read

The last thing that I read was an academic article in the area of psychology. For my own personal pleasure, the last thing that I read was a spiritual book by Tommy Tenney called "God Chasers".

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'7" (170cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: Curvy About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Other profession No preference
Licensed clinical psychologist
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Background / Values
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
I am an African-American (Black) female. My family has southern roots (Virginia and North Carolina), but that was prior to my birth.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
I am a dedicated Christian.
Languages: English No preference
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral No preference
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