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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Probably not
Black / African descent
Body type:
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
If I am to speak bluntly: I don't want to get...

In her own words

If I am to speak bluntly: I don't want to get married. I don't want to have babies. And, unless I fall head over heals, I doubt that I'd want to live with someone. As an educated, professional lady, my priorities are very different. Yet, I do have needs. Very real needs that only the right man can satisfy. Therefore, I want one man who I can share my life with. Who I can trust my heart to. Who can be strong for me when I am weak. Who I can rely on for love and comfort. Please be forewarned that I have been told that my standards are high. But I bring a lot to the table and my heart is full of love for the right man. I'll patiently wait for the right man who will be my rock and enhance my life with the one thing missing: himself. So, if you believe yourself to be a man of integrity, please read on. Me: I am a devoted Christian. You: Have a true relationship with a higher power, which guides your life. Me: I am financially secure. I have a successful career and I work harder than I need to, but I truly enjoy what I do. You: Have a job, a car and your own place. If you are looking for someone to financially support you, please click to the next profile. Me: I detest lies. You can bet every dollar you have that I will ALWAYS be honest with you. You: Be truthful at ALL times. Even little ‘white’ lies are a MAJOR turn-off for me. Me: My physical appearance, the health of my body and my figure are very important to me. I do not smoke or do any drugs. I have no diseases. I drink alcohol once or twice per year. I work out 5 times week, if not every day. You: Please shower every day and have clean teeth. Please do not do any drugs and drink in moderation. Please be completely disease free and engage in safe sex only. Me: My hair is natural and I don't wear a face full of makeup. God has blessed me with 100% natural beauty and I am very comfortable in my own skin. You: If you require your woman to have straight hair, please click to the next profile. Me: I like sex. A lot of sex. I’d take it every day, but exes typically complained that I wore them out. You: Please be capable of satisfying sexual performance. Sloppy or selfish sex loses my interest rather quickly. But, I will happily settle for really GOOD sex about twice per week. Also, if you are looking for casual sex only, please click to the next profile. Me: I absolutely love to laugh and I like to be silly, when appropriate. I am a very happy person. You: Please enjoy having fun! If you are an angry, uptight person, like to argue or have a negative attitude, please click to the next profile. Me: My life is 100% drama-free. I have no lingering exes and no baby daddies, with no secret rendezvous behind your back. You: If you have more than 2 baby mommas, if you are married, separated, in love, living with someone or sleeping with someone, please click to the next profile. Me: I dislike texting. You: If your primary mode of communication is texting, please click to the next profile. We are adults! Call me! Me: I love to travel. I typically take 2 or 3 trips per year so that I can see the world. You: Please have the willingness and the financial ability to fund yourself, so we can see the world together. Me: I am a sucker for intelligence and I thoroughly enjoy mentally stimulating conversations. You: Remember this, you must stimulate my mind before you can stimulate my body. Me: I pride myself on being a quality woman, with morals and decency. You: Please recognize the need to be a quality man and appreciate a quality woman. My apologies. I know that's a mouthful, but I have found it wise to weed out those whom I have no interest in ahead of time. I invite those who read this and understand my views to reach out to me to further the conversation.

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

Favorite hot spots

The Cayman Islands are absolutely beautiful! Some of the places that I intend to travel to include Rio de Janeiro, Africa and Paris.


Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY

Favorite things

Anything purple! :) Ice cold water. Saturdays, because I can sleep late. Pretty shoes that are very comfortable. Great conversation. Movies with an unexpected twist at the end. Singing. Being loved.

For fun

I am always writing something. It's a pleasant hobby of mine. I love to read, anything from novels, to articles, and magazines. I enjoy singing. I'm a bit of a movie buff, mostly suspense and dramas. I also like to swim and to bowl.

Last read

The last book that I read was the "The Shack" by William P. Young. It was quite moving!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'7" (170cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: Curvy About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Other profession No preference
Licensed clinical psychologist
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Probably not No preference
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
I am an African-American (Black) female.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
I am a dedicated Christian.
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
I am a dedicated Christian.
Languages: English No preference
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral No preference
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