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40 year old woman | Virginia Beach, VA, United States | Seeking men 35-48 within 30 miles

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
Black / African descent
Body type:
5'11" (180cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
I am asked, frequently, why I am single. I am...

In her own words

I am asked, frequently, why I am single. I am told that: "A woman like you should not be single". It's a cute compliment. But, honestly, the answer to that question is the very same as the reason why the question is being asked. It is because I embody a number of the things that most men say that they want in a woman, but do not realize actually intimidates them until they are presented with it. But, I don't want to tell you too much too soon. ;) The most important thing that you should know about me is that I am a devoted Christian. My walk with Christ is paramount for me. It means that I strive to live my life in a manner that reflects His love of me and my commitment to Him. I do not have any children and I have never been married. I am a professional lady, and I work harder than I need to, but I thoroughly enjoy my career and I love the financial result of my hard work. I typically take a couple of week-long vacations each year, to ensure that I recharge and relax. Physically, I am just under 6 feet tall and my height definitely works for me. I have a caramel-complexion and my hair is natural. I am thick, curvy, very attractive and quite sexy. I work-out approximately five times a week, and I take my figure very seriously. I have a witty sense of humor, I always have a smile on my face and I absolutely love to laugh. I have a big heart and I am a nurturer by nature. I know, very well, how to treat a man and I am one of those rare women that genuinely believes that the man should be the leader, and that his woman should not thwart his manhood or his dominance. My life is 100% drama-free because I instinctively move away from nonsense and I am particular about who I allow into my life. I do not get my joy from gossip, ugliness or attitudes, but instead from helping others, seeing a genuine smile on the face of others and being completely content in my own skin. Activities I enjoy include live theater, museums, art galleries, and the symphony, as well as movies, bowling, swimming, concerts, working out, writing extensively, reading just about anything, long steamy baths, and I love to travel. I also thoroughly enjoy mentally stimulating conversations. I love adventure, as I have been bungee jumping, sky coasting and want to go skydiving. If you are looking for casual sex or a fling, you can move to the next profile. Please be forewarned that I have been told that my standards are high. However, I will patiently wait for the right man for me who will be my rock and enhance my life with the one thing missing. Things I like in a man: * has your own relationship with a higher power and you live by your faith * recognizes the need to be a quality person and appreciates a quality woman * truthful at ALL times (lies, even little white ones, are a MAJOR turn-off for me) * intelligence (intellect is a MAJOR turn-on for me) * satisfying sexual performance * loves to laugh and knows how to enjoy life * enjoys traveling * has personal integrity, morals and common decency * can carry a stimulating conversation * doesn’t play games, play the field or play with people’s emotions Things I don’t want in a man: * doesn’t have a car, a job or your own place * uptight, angry or a negative attitude * primary mode of communication is texting * has multiple 'baby mamas' * looking for someone to financially support you * emotionally, intimately or legally attached to another person * does not take care of your body (bad hygiene, no exercise, drug use, excessive alcohol, sexual promiscuity, etc.) If you feel we might get along (based on the above), then I would love to hear from you. :)

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Business networking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing

Sports & exercise

Bowling, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I like Dogs

Favorite hot spots

The Cayman Islands are absolutely beautiful! Some of the places that I intend to travel to include Rio de Janeiro, Africa and Paris.


Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY

Favorite things

Anything purple! :) Ice cold water. Saturdays, because I can sleep late. Pretty shoes that are very comfortable. Great conversation. Movies with an unexpected twist at the end. Singing. Being loved.

For fun

I am always writing something. It's a pleasant hobby of mine. I love to read, anything from novels, to articles, and magazines. I enjoy singing. I'm a bit of a movie buff, mostly suspense and dramas. I also like to swim and to bowl.

Last read

The last book that I read was the "The Shack" by William P. Young. It was quite moving!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'11" (180cms) 5'7" (170cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: Curvy About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Other profession No preference
Licensed clinical psychologist
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: Black / African descent No preference
I am an African-American (Black) female.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
I am a dedicated Christian.
Languages: English No preference
Education: PhD / Post Doctoral No preference
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