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41 year old woman | Indianapolis, IN, United States | Seeking men 33-49 within 60 miles of Carmel, IN

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Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (More than 3)
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'4" (162cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
spring is just around the corner...

In her own words

I'm burned out on match and taking a break... Please understand my profile and have a good idea we are matches before messaging me. I expect honesty entirely. Hoping for a real & deep relationship, while friends to start with long-term in view is my goal. I'm looking for my core match. I'm serious about "the list", but those who know me would say I'm fun(ny) & energetic with a maybe-equally serious side! Early dating for me is casual & only getting-to-know-each-other time - not personal if one of us doesn't feel a connection/"click". I read profiles (even pretty good at reading between the lines!). If I look at your profile & think we're possibilities, I'll reach out (&...if either of us can tell we aren't matches, no obligation to respond - life is short and busy!). on the note of men's profiles, i will say that if you state what makes you different from all the rest, you'll be one of the few. :) My core: * faith not religion - real-to-life Christian faith is vital for me to share. I struggled a long time & have grown (though imperfect). I prefer nondenominational protestant churches (mine especially!). I'm a regular attender but not legalistic or preachy. Keys to me are: grace (God's grace takes care of imperfections), relationship with God, words of Jesus, & how He & all of us fit into God's big picture. * family - I have four charismatic children (ages 7-9-11-13 - I am ALWAYS getting compliments about them...) - it would be great for them to have an amazing male figure in their lives. Though I don't want to have more of my own genetic children, I'd prefer to date someone without children of his own or with children older than mine since blending families with children the ages of mine or younger is likely more than I'm willing to tackle. I am looking for a man who wants to and has time to be involved. * active/healthy - balance in all things, but I love good & various workouts & want to share an active lifestyle. i'm also a bit of a foodie (maybe even a hippie/farmer)! * generic necessities: character, balance, variety, flexibility, steady/stable, sense of humor, financial stability (but not all about $ or stuff). If we message here & discuss meeting, I'd rather meet earlier than spend a lot of time e-chatting. It's never personal if after a coffee we don't click or either of us doesn't want to meet after we e-chat. please let's have no expectations other than to just see, like we're strangers meeting for the first time, since...that's what we are when/if we meet the first time! Chemistry is a must, but there's so much more than chemistry. I'm looking for a whole person who's looking for a whole person. :) I am not desperate to find my forever man, but i know I'm made to be in relationship, so I'm here. About looks, people usually think I look younger than my age & say i look fit. I want someone who is attracted to me & vice versa, but I want someone who is more drawn to me as a person). Side note: I wouldn't date someone without a final divorce, and even then, i would hope a man would take time to work through the process of having gone through it completely before dating (me). I understand situations are complicated and each is unique, but for my situation and heart, it's my policy. :) Timing is everything (and in God's hands, I believe), so if you're trying to rush something into happening (I've done it...), it doesn't lead to good results. Wise men say...go slowly. :) I hope the best for you. Life isn't easy. I'm thankful that God really is always with us in the junky parts of life between of all the true-good and feel-good ones. Confidently knowing that changes my perspective on a lot of things.

Her interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I have Dogs

just one dog...

Political views


Favorite hot spots

my church, my yard, local plant nurseries, outside tables at restaurants, places with great views, walking trails, coffee shops, laser tag (with kids!), airports, movie theaters, and event venues

Favorite things

friends & family - hosting! words. spicy mustard. dark chocolate. outside (various exercise, gardening/mowing/just being). red wine. music(als). many favorite things, & i LOVE the "favorite things" song - could sing it for you perhaps! :)

Last read

i do a daily devotional and bible reading - loving audio in my car these days. i'm good (& bad) about starting books of interest (mostly non-fiction), reading what i want and setting aside for another time.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: I'll tell you later Other profession
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Widow / Widower Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (More than 3) No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: I'll tell you later Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
Languages: English, German English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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