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40 year old woman | Indianapolis, IN, United States | Seeking men 34-46 within 60 miles of Carmel, IN


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Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (More than 3)
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'4" (162cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
i'd like to order one like-minded-conversational-and-friendly-fun-but-real start w chemistry and potential, please.

In her own words

i am burned out on this, but i'll stay here just in case we strike a chord. it just takes one, a friend reminded me recently. as much as i am fun/silly (ask anyone who knows me!), i'm SERIOUS about these things. :) UP FRONT (and maybe different from what many others want): 1) i am sticking to my age range preference (34-46) and other parameters on my profile. i know what is important to me. 2) i like to meet briefly and casually earlier, not spending a ton of time texting, etc. at the same time, i don't respond to messages if I'm pretty sure we aren't matches, and i get that you may not respond, too. mutual respect always. 3) i hope to not move in the next 20-30-40 years. 4) I would not want to have any more of my own genetic children; as far as being with someone with a child/children, the less drama the better. 5) because of my relationship status above, i do need someone who has what i call a heart for fathering. it's not that i want to replace their dad, but they need/want a great male in their lives (as i do in mine!). contrary to what some may think, we don't live in a state of constant sadness - it's been more than three years - now we are just living life together but would like someone to help me be a better me, throw a ball here and there, etc. :) ABOUT ME (and my match): NOT in a rush, but looking for long-term in the end (way more than a hook-up, though i'm not sure i want to share a bathroom again on a daily basis unless you're especially special...), and i would make time and energy for dating if everything lines up. balance is key in so many ways! o Faith – real-life (not "religion"/rule-based) Christian - nondenominational church attender, though I definitely struggle w faith some and would like to be able to discuss faith topics intelligently. o True and good communication skills o Healthy boundaries o Respect/strong character, though no one is perfect o Attraction/chemistry and flow in conversation are vital o Active/semi-outdoorsy/adventurous lifestyle and personality o Balance, variety, and flexibility o Positive attitude and humor o Social/extroverted enough (to have me not always be the one making plans) o Educated/intelligent o Family-oriented o Financially stable/responsible (but not all about $) o Language/cultural/travel interests

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I have Dogs

match assumes if you have ONE dog, you have dogS - i have one. :) i do have four kids, who are kind of like more dogs... they do bark, scratch, lap up water, and sometimes stink (but get baths). ha, ha... :)

Political views


Favorite hot spots

bub's (for the sweet potato fries), kona (for the tuna tower/saki bomb/fish tank), wanting to branch out/try new places! any place with great food/wine/company, edisto island, sc; switzerland.

Favorite things

so so MANY. snow, mustard, sushi (and really any GOOD food, including wine), dark chocolate, personal growth, ideas (i'm an "idea person"), new things, photography, good design in general, laughter, grammar, silliness, making people smile.

For fun

nature/outside, pool/swimming/beach, casual biking, landscape (installing, enjoying, just seeing interesting/good design), short road trips and other traveling, sports (casually), eating/going out, CONVERSATION! (in no particular order) :)

Last read

just started with the 21 day sugar detox, and i inconsistently to do a daily devotional/bible reading.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Income: I'll tell you later $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Widow / Widower Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (More than 3) No preference
Wants kids: I'll tell you later No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
a lot of people try to guess what my ethnicity/background is! i'm an american girl, though my roots are german-hillbilly-irish-native-american-indian.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
it's quite important to me. someone i date MUST have this in common with me (it's a deal breaker if not). i am constantly learning how my christian faith looks (how i live it and think about it). want to share in this kind of thinking and living!
Languages: English, German English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
i speak only a tad german. took it all through high school, but i DO still think and speak bits here and there and have been told i was understandable - crazy! fun!
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