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40 year old woman | Indianapolis, IN, United States | Seeking men 33-47 within 60 miles of Carmel, IN

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Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (More than 3)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
5'4" (162cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
i'd like to order one like-minded-conversational-and-friendly-fun-but-real start w chemistry and potential, please.

In her own words

To me, people have depth. So, I share a lot here so u see if your deeper details may line up with mine. my disclaimers (updated...): (1) as organized and neat as my little ;) list is below, i know no one is perfect in every way, not you, not me; this is just an effort to be honest about my ideals, which gives a glimpse into my personality and perspectives. (2) about honesty, it's important from the beginning, even if we're not interested in each other (or just one of us) for any reason - i want to respect and be respected as far as this goes. (3) i like to meet briefly and casually earlier, not spending a lot of time online/texting before meeting for a reality/chemistry check. :) (4) i hope to never move again in the next 20-30 years, so let's be real about that, too. (5) my kids are the best ever, and I have finally reached the place in my mind that I would not want to have any more of my own genetic children. This is a big deal to some, I know. When guys say "someday" or "definitely" about wanting to have kids, I wonder if it could be that mine are young enough to still give the right father-minded guy a fatherly experience enough while skipping diapers and all. :) (6) seriously, i am sticking to my age range preference (33-47-ish) and other parameters on my profile...mostly because i have young children, and i've learned what is important to me. about me: i'm a happy and crazy busy mom of four, in need of a partner in life (though NOT in a rush, i would make time and energy for dating if everything lines up); and, i'm looking for a man with these qualities, which for the most part i also have (describing me and what i'm looking for in a man, THO i don't want to be too matchy-matchy...ha...balance is key in so many ways!): o Truth – even when difficult - the only starting and staying point o Faith – real-life/realistic relationship-with-christ-based Christian – can and likes to have good/involved conversations about faith with me - i attend a nondenominational church and will only date someone who is like-minded, though I definitely struggle w faith some. o Stable situation - no crazy exes or extreme family situation o Communication and relational resolution skills (good old "let's work it out" skills) o Healthy boundaries - i think i would be classified as a "giver" in a relationship, and i enjoy being around other people who are givers in general. o Respect/Strong Character – in general, toward people/positive o Attraction/Chemistry (looks are not the most important, but i think we all need attraction/chemistry, so it’s high up on my list) o Active/semi-outdoorsy/adventurous lifestyle and personality – medium fit and into healthy lifestyle generally. o Balance, variety, and flexibility o Positive attitude, though life isn't always positive. o Conversational ease – good listener/easy to talk with and to me - "flow" with me (it just happens, and i can't describe it otherwise, but i know when it doesn't exist). o Steadiness o Humor o Affinity for socializing (i'm extroverted to a large degree, which i don't need a match on this, but enough so that we can enjoy social settings/hosting) o Smarts – good grammar generally and intelligent conversationalist; i like words/grammar/language, and i am not perfect this way, but it's a fun part of life! i don't read like i'd like to - truth is, i just don't make time for it. o Family-Orientation - unlike some, i want/need a positive male "father figure" to role model and parent alongside me. o Financial stability (but not all about $) BONUSes: o Musical (i am but not officially) o Artsy (i am casually) o Language/cultural/travel interest (i am casually and hope to travel more) o Chiropractor or massage therapist – (i'm not but would enjoy) ha!

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Playing sports , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Cycling, Other types of exercise, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.


I don't believe in astrology


I have Dogs

match assumes if you have ONE dog, you have dogS - i have one. :) i do have four kids, who are kind of like more dogs... they do bark, scratch, lap up water, and sometimes stink (but get baths). ha, ha... :)

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Favorite hot spots

edisto island, sc; switzerland, anyplace with good friends and conversation

Favorite things

MANY. snow fall and the quiet outside that follows, spicy mustard, sushi, vietnamese food (any GOOD food, including wine), dark chocolate, spiritual insights, personal growth, new things, photography, good design in general, depth, laughter, grammar.

For fun

nature/outside, pool/swimming/beach, casual biking, landscape (installing, enjoying, just seeing interesting/good design), sports (casually), eating/going out, traveling, CONVERSATION! (in no particular order) :)

Last read

devotional - jesus calling. and digging in to b more consistent with my bible-reading.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type: About average Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation: I'll tell you later No preference
Income: I'll tell you later $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Widow / Widower Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (More than 3) Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
a lot of people try to guess what my ethnicity/background is! i'm an american girl, though my roots are german-hillbilly-irish-native-american-indian.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
it's quite important to me. someone i date MUST have this in common with me (it's a deal breaker if not). i am constantly learning how my christian faith looks (how i live it and think about it). want to share in this kind of thinking and living!
Languages: English, German English
Education: Graduate degree Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
i speak only a tad german. took it all through high school, but i DO still think and speak bits here and there and have been told i was understandable - crazy! fun!
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