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45 year old woman | Durham, NC, United States | Seeking men 40-50 within 30 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
I'll tell you later
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'2" (157cms)
Spiritual but not religious
I'll tell you later
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In her own words

Hello, Thank you for reviewing my profile. There are lots of ways to show interest on Match, probably too many, so sending an email is best even if it's just a "hello". Please note that if you do not post photos or do not match my preferences, I will not reply. So sending multiple emails is not necessary. On the question about kids, having my own is not in the cards at 45. I get along great with children; I have two nephews I babysit often. My parents divorced when I was young, so I completely understand and respect when spending time with your kids is your first priority. I live in Durham, but work in Cary. I have pets, so lunch/coffee meet ups during the lunch hour are good during the week or anytime on the weekends. I am originally from south Louisiana so I enjoy a Saints game, hot weather, and good music. I prefer hole-in-the-wall restaurants with good food over eateries that have nice tables and gluten-free menus. Good points about me: I own my home, I'm not the jealous type, I'm only about 9% crazy, I've been told that I have a wicked/dry sense of humor, and all my pictures are current (I really am 45, 5'2", and about 105 lbs). Speaking of jealousy and crazy, if you can't stop talking about your ex and your anger towards them, we would not be a good together. I'm on good terms with all my ex boyfriends and my one ex-husband. Fun fact: I quit smoking about 3 years ago. I have an e-cigarette (which is just vapor) I use if I am enjoying an adult beverage. It was hard to quit, so I can't be with a heavy smoke Oh, I have found that having tattoos is a deal breaker for some; I have three small ones...none of which is located on the small of my back. I'm looking for someone that is the yin to my yang. I think couples work best when they pick up each other's slack. If you are extra friendly, that's a plus b/c I can be a bit shy until I get to know someone (and then you'll pray that I'll stop talking). If you are someone who also likes attending a Bulls game just as much as going to the occasional DPAC show, enjoys a craft beer, playing board games, trying new things, and reading in bed before going to sleep, then we might get along. Good luck on your search!

Her interests

Book club , Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Playing cards , Playing sports , Political interests , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Cats, Dogs

I have a Siamese cat I adopted from my sister, a Chihuahua that I've had for 12 years, and a newly acquired lab/Brittany mix that my other sister adopted but couldn't keep b/c he didn't get along with their cat.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

I don't think anyplace I hang out would be considered a "hot spot", unless you consider my deck a "hot spot". I enjoy trying new restaurants, so let me know your favorites in Durham.


Northwestern State University of Louisiana, Natchitoches, LA

Favorite things

Cheese (in all its glorious forms), Bulls games, sitting on my deck listening to the birds, day trips, movies, dancing around my house while I clean, a good ink pen, listening to records on my turntable, trying new things, and enjoying a microbrew.

For fun

DIY projects that never turn out how I envision them. I enjoy the occasional DPAC show, Durham Bulls, travel, movies, and hanging out with my pets. I tried kayaking last year and really enjoyed it. I volunteer for a dog rescue on the weekends.

Last read

I love Christopher Moore, David Sedaris, Ian McEwan, Charlaine Harris, and many others. I like books that are character-driven. I've been in the book/publishing business for 10 years, so I do quite a bit of leisure reading.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'2" (157cms) 5'5" (165cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type: Slender Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Black Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
Smoke: I'll tell you later No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink: Moderately Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Sales / Marketing No preference
I was in a high-level job in publishing for 10 years, but I started a sales job in 2017 and am enjoying a better life/work balance.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: I'll tell you later No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith: Spiritual but not religious Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
I don't go to church regularly, but am part of a Methodist congregation when I'm home in Louisiana.
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
I don't go to church regularly, but am part of a Methodist congregation when I'm home in Louisiana.
Languages: English, Other No preference
Education: Bachelors degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
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