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whattaputhere

42 year old woman | Syracuse, NY, USA | Seeking men 39-55 within 30 miles

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Her details

Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (1)
Wants kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Left with more then one question...

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Beep beep beep...I would like to interrupt the normally inserted profile to ask a question. Can someone please explain match etiquette to me. Prior to joining I considered myself fairly intelligent However lately I have been questioning the meaning of simple words. What is better.. to be liked or winked at? To be interested or a favorited? If someone "likes" your photo, does they just mean they think it is a good photo? Or does that mean they want to get to know you? Do you email them? I feel like the people of match are evil scientists and we are the mice they have put in a maze with out an exit. LOL ok back to the normally inserted mundane profile.. A few years ago online dating would not have been on my radar....I also swore I would never type "LOL" or make a smiley face out of punctuation marks....now I use them daily. Funny how life has away of putting you in your place! So i had some chuckles scooping out the competition and was left with a question or two. Do we all sound the same? 1. We "want to trying new things" but you and I know most who put that are talking about a new restaurant, wearing white after labor day or slapping on a SU orange button shuffling up to the hill. 2. Shocker!! We want a nice guys, we like to laugh and have fun! You mean if we advertise we are basket cases who never leave out homes you wouldn't wink at us? 3. Our photos I love the ones you need binoculars to spot the girl on the mountain, or the 3 friends at a bar, how do you know which one we are? I want you to know, I worked very hard on my photo. It is not easy to suck my gut in, hold my chin up and take a photo w one hand in a mirror! 4. Don't women/men not realize there are time stamps on some photos? Get a little nervous when the only photo is 1994 5. I have leaned that I may be the only person on match whose ideal vacation isn't a week in the wilderness. Don't get me wrong I love being outside and a great camp fire but at the end of the night I want a shower, shave and not have to dig a hole. Mens profiles can be equally confusing . 1. The work hard, play harder...do you ever relax? I think that equates to our quote "Live Laugh Love" 2. Under "Have Kids" you put "I will tell you later" That scares the crap out of me...are you one of the Duggers and have 19 kids and counting 3.You're 50....but are looking to date someone 25. I know, I know..... you don't act or look your age 4. Love the reverse you're looking to date women 55 and older but you want to have kids. Hmmm.. May want to refresh biology, probably not going to happen! Hope I am not ruining Easter but there is no Bunny and that Chick doesn't have eggs. 5.The pictures of you and your ex not a good idea. Remember even if it is your sister, we are going to assume the worst. This is online dating and we are women. So after all this recon I am completely baffled! Did you ever wonder who do these scantily clad women laid out seductively on their bed ask to take their photo? I just feel that would be a really awkward question....Hey mom can you snap a photo for me? Oh boy the look I would get!!! So if made it thru this, hopefully, you will shoot an email. Iif not to me, take a risk and send one to someone. We are all on here for one reason, ok maybe not all of us :) Emails and txts are great but after a week or 2 the whole "catfish" scenario starts running thru our heads. Lets face it all comes down to chemistry. Disclaimer**** I have been separated for over 4 years, technically not divorced but consider myself it. I know when I see "separated" in a profile I worry. I have an amazing 11 year old son who is my life. I have a very good relationship with my ex and am not looking for a Dad for my son. Maybe at some point a friend to him who will buy him his first beer and lie to him about how you met his mother.

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Pets

I have Cats, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Other

Favorite hot spots

It was Wegmans...heard grocery stores were a great place to meet men, but I guess they have a crazy policy about running your grocery cart into men and asking them to touch your melons so they banned me:)

For fun

There are very few things I am not willing to try or do. I think I am a very lucky person to have the people I have in my life and realize that they are all there for a reason. I guess I am hoping to meet more people who I can be grateful for.

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  Her What she is looking for
Appearance
Height: 5'7" (170cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type: About average No preference
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Light brown No preference
Lifestyle
Smoke: Occasionally No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Social Drinker No preference
Occupation: Self-Employed / Entrepreneur No preference
I love what I do, it gives me the freedom to be home with my son when I need or just want to be...It took me 20 years to find my passion and until now never understood how someone could love doing what they do...but i get it now.
Income: I'll tell you later No preference
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (1) No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Background
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
I have a PHD in the art of sarcasm and sexual innuendo:) I am an occasional smoker when i am out after a few cocktails.
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
I am not a religious person but respect those who are. I believe in Karma & if you are a good person good things happen to you...and if your not it will come back and bite ya
Languages: English English
Education: Bachelors degree High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
The income question is so nosey... I understand it to some degree....But Who would ask that on a first date??? ( I make over $70,000)
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