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42 year old woman | Monroe, LA, United States | Seeking men 32-47 within 400 miles

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Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (1)
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'5" (165cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Southern girl looking for laughs and great conversation

In her own words

Looking to go out to lunch, dinner or have a drink. No expectations, talk, laugh and see if I connect with someone. Not looking for a relationship but if it finds me in this process then so be it. I have a big heart and lots of love to give. I would rather be alone and happy then be with someone that doesn't have 100% of what I need and want in our lives. The right man will come into our lives when the timing is right. I didn't want to set a limit on mileage to find "my match" if miles are a problem for you, then please don't message me. Distance is just miles from Point A to Point B. I am not limiting myself to someone local, why would I be on here...You just might miss out on THE ONE! After all, a house is just a house. I would be up for a move if it meant being with someone special and making a home. I am a Curvy Active woman meaning I have an ample bosom, trim waist, and round butt. But I do workout, walk at least 5 miles a day and swim and stay outdoors, especially in the summer. Having a 5 year old keeps me both young at heart and physically fit. Grew up in Monroe, La then moved to South Carolina in 96', lived there for 17 years and moved back to my hometown area of Louisiana 3 years ago to be closer to family. I was in the dental industry(marketing/event planning) for 10 years while in SC, I now do a lot of volunteering, involved with my daughters school and also work from home. I own 2 businesses. I have a marketing and eBay business. Allows me to be a Full Time Mom. I love it. Been working since I was 15. Decided to try it from home 3 years ago when I moved back here and it worked because I have a lot of self discipline and can manage money so it works for me and thankful to be here for my daughter and not miss things and her growing up. I am very outgoing, live life to the fullest kinda woman but I am also a very strong, independent, and blunt woman. I know exactly the type of man that I want/need. It's not just me anymore but also my just turned 5 year old daughter. I am an army widow of 4 years, I was with my husband for 10 years, married for 6. He was in law enforcement and also a sub contractor. So, I know about the long hours and need for support. I was a stepmother of his 2 children then ages 3/6 now 17/20 living with their mother in SC. He was deployed 2 weeks after I had her and passed 7 days before her first birthday so I have been a full time single parent. I would not trade my experiences in life good or bad because it made me the woman I am today. I am also a thyroid cancer survivor of 3 years now. I'm a tough cookie. Some of the qualities I am looking for are: honesty, respect, trust, communication, music lover. Absolutely NO smokers. I don't care if it's just occasionally or trying to quit, smoking is smoking. I love being outdoors, either working in my yard or bike riding, hiking and fishing. If I'm not outdoors, I'm in my kitchen, I love to cook. The only games I play are board games...seriously I have a game closet! I'm not going to tell you a lot about me because that is what getting to know someone is all about!

Her interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing cards , Playing sports , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Baseball, Bowling, Football, Hockey, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Cats, Dogs, Fish

I have an 11 year old Yorkie, a 2 month old kitten and we also have several Oscar goldfish.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

I loved Negril Jamaica, Key West and Cozumel. I also loved the mountains of NC. I would love to go to Australia, New Zealand.

Favorite things

I love the rain, love to cook, coffee in the morning. Variety of music, you should see my Pandora list. I love yoga and working out. The smell/feel of freshly washed sheets.

For fun

My fav movies are horror. I love to camp, ride horses, shoot clays and fish. I can even bait my own hook and take off my fish. I love to watch hockey, even better in person. I love UFC. I have a bucket list. Adrenaline junkie! Outdoors person!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'5" (165cms) 5'6" (167cms) to 6'7" (200cms)
Body type: Curvy Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Hazel Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Light brown, Dark brown
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Sales / Marketing Executive / Management, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retired, Other profession, Law enforcement / Security / Military
Income: $75,001 to $100,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Widow / Widower Never Married, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (1) No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Religious Attitude: I'll tell you later No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Some college No preference
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