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41 year old woman | Monroe, LA, United States | Seeking men 29-48 within 2000 miles


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Her details

Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (1)
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'5" (165cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker
Need a partner to go with you to attend a Football game, UFC events, Live concerts or just dinner and some adult female conversation?

In her own words

I am a very strong, independent, outgoing and blunt woman. I know exactly the type of man that I want/need. It's not just me anymore but also my just turned 5 year old daughter. I am an army widow of 4 years, I was with my husband for 10 years, married for 6. He was deployed 2 weeks after I had her and passed 7 days before her first birthday so I have been a full time single parent. I would not trade my experiences in life good or bad because it made me the woman I am today. I am also a thyroid cancer survivor of 3 years now. I'm a tough cookie. I'm not looking to play games, hook up. I want to meet someone with substance that I can go to dinner and a real conversation with. See if we have chemistry and go from there. I want someone who also gives in a relationship, not looking for a taker or a give/take person. Some of the qualities I am looking for are: honesty, respect, trust, communication, music lover. Absolutely NO smokers. I don't care if it's just occasionally, smoking is smoking. I love being outdoors, either working in my yard or bike riding, hiking and fishing. If I'm not outdoors, I'm in my kitchen, I love to cook. I am a Curvy Active woman meaning I have an ample bosom, trim waist, and round butt. But I do workout, walk atleast 5 miles a day and swim and stay outdoors, especially in the summer. Having a 5 year old keeps me both young at heart and physically fit. I grew up here in Louisiana. Moved to SC in 96', lived there for 17 years and moved back to here 3 years ago to be closer to family. I was in the dental industry(marketing/event planning) for 10 years while in SC, I now do a lot of volunteering and also work from home, this allows me to be here for my daughter and travel when we want. I have a big heart and lots of love to give. I would rather be alone and happy then be with someone that doesn't have 100% of what I need and want in our lives. The right man will come into our lives when the timing is right. I don't know what's worse on here....Having someone ask you tons of questions that is in my summary, which I fire back that they can read my profile and found out the answer OR A guy that crops out his ex and uses the pictures. Really? Is the picture that great in your eyes? We know it's your ex, we can see part of her hair or hand lol. I'd rather see the guy that takes a picture of himself in the mirror with this phone. And another thing...update your profile and pictures. All of mine are current pictures. I die laughing at people that put up baby pictures or 10 yr old pics. You can share those when you start dating someone. We want to see the real you because guess what? Eventually you will talk on the phone, swap pictures and guess what you've wasted my time because you look nothing like your pictures. Do NOT write me if you DO NOT have any PICTURES, I delete them. Everyone has an excuse and I don't care to hear it OR saying, "Wish you lived closer" what is the point with writing this? If distance is an issue for you, then move on to someone in your hometown. Distance is just miles from Point A to Point B. I am not limiting myself to someone local, why would I be on here...You just might miss out on THE ONE! After all, a house is just a house. I would be up for a move if it meant being with someone special and making a home. If you are going to "Favorite Me, Like Me, Be Interested or Wink" you might as well Message me. What is the point in doing all of that and not communicate with me? I'm not going to tell you a lot about me because that is what getting to know someone is all about!

Her interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Fishing/Hunting , Gardening/Landscaping , Hobbies and crafts , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Playing cards , Playing sports , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Video games , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Football, Golf, Hockey, Other types of exercise, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.




I have Dogs, Fish

I have an 11 year old Yorkie and we also have several Oscar goldfish.

Political views

Middle of the Road

Favorite hot spots

I loved Negril Jamaica, Key West and Cozumel. I also loved the mountains of NC. I would love to go to Australia, New Zealand.

Favorite things

I love the rain, love to cook, coffee in the morning. Variety of music, you should see my Pandora list. I love yoga and working out. The smell/feel of freshly washed sheets.

For fun

My fav movies are horror. I love to camp, ride horses, shoot clays and fish. I can even bait my own hook and take off my fish. I love to watch hockey, even better in person. I love UFC. I have a bucket list. Adrenaline junkie! Outdoors person!

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'5" (165cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Hazel Blue, Green
Hair: Dark brown Light brown, Dark brown, Salt and pepper
Smoke: No Way No Way
Drink: Social Drinker Never, Social Drinker
Occupation: Executive / Management No preference
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Widow / Widower No preference
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (1) No preference
Wants kids: Not sure No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Faith: Spiritual but not religious No preference
Languages: English English
Education: Some college No preference
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