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42 year old woman | Des Moines, IA, United States | Seeking men 35-48 in United States

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Never Married
Have kids:
Wants kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
5'6" (167cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
I'm looking for the extraordinary ... care to join me on the journey?

In her own words

I don’t fit any particular mold. My date shouldn’t either. • I love to delve deep into life’s wonder and mystery; I also love to laugh at the ridiculous. • I have a full and happy life on my own; having someone to share it with would be nice. • I confront difficult issues; I don’t run away when the going gets tough. • I commit to growing and changing my whole life; I don’t want things to ever stay the same. • I have a comfortable home; I also love to explore new places. • I love life’s contradictions; I don’t do “simple” or “average.” • I am a Christian; but, I am NOT conservative or overly pious. • I work hard to have a healthy spirit, mind and body; I’m not interested in sinking into dysfunction. • I speak my mind; I’m happy to be challenged. • I have high expectations; I don’t settle for less. Are you the kind of person who doesn’t want to settle? Someone who wants something extraordinary? So am I. Send me a message.

Her interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Gardening/Landscaping , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Performing arts , Political interests , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Cycling, Football, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga

I exercise 5 or more times per week.



Political views

Very Liberal

Favorite hot spots

Chicago is the city of my heart. I lived there for 14 years until moving to Des Moines almost four years ago. I enjoy traveling just about anywhere; I can just as easily dress up for a night in a big city as I can pack up for a weekend camping trip.


Knox College, Galesburg, IL

Favorite things

Things I can't live without: Yoga. In-season tomatoes. Massages. Travel. Old Friends. My iPad 3. God.

For fun

I'm always up for trying something new. I enjoy traveling to new places, going to movies, theater, museums. I am an avid yoga practitioner to keep a healthy mind, body and spirit. Cooking and gardening also keep me sane and grounded.

Last read

Mighty Be Our Powers by Leymah Gbowee. Daring Greatly by Brene Brown.

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'6" (167cms) 5'4" (162cms) to 6'9" (205cms)
Body type: Curvy Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes: Blue Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Dark brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Grey, Bald
Smoke: No Way No Way, Occasionally
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker
Occupation: Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design
I am an ordained clergy person in the United Church of Christ, but don't let that put you off. I still enjoy good wine and dancing, use swear words from time to time and am an all-around complex and imperfect person.
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Never Married Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids: No Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Wants kids: Not sure Someday, Not sure
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
I'm a Caucasian Midwesterner, but I'm not narrow-minded. I'm open to people of a wide range of ethnic backgrounds.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious
I was raised Roman Catholic, but now am part of the United Church of Christ, a progressive Protestant denomination. Though I am a committed Christian, I can appreciate the thought and practice of many other faith backgrounds.
Languages: English No preference
Education: Graduate degree Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
I have a master's degree and plan to continue learning; yet, I'm not overly academic or intellectual.
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