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45 year old woman | Haymarket, VA, United States | Seeking men 45-54 within 50 miles

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Have kids:
Yes, and they live at home (2)
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
5'4" (162cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Social Drinker
ISO: tad bit nerdy, serious types...would love quiet reading & cuddle time in a hammock with a great wine...we'd laugh a lot

In her own words

Isn't Match frustrating? Like 24 hour a day Amazon Prime for partners...very strange and, at times, demeaning, but I am certainly not meeting anyone at the melons in Wegman's or Whole Foods...Like many others in their 40s or 50s, I do not hang out in bars or other singles' hot spots; I am hoping to connect with other normal, hard-working, intelligent, kind, busy, middle-aged men who are NOT "shopping" for the "flavor of the week" on internet dating sites. On that note, if you are a 40 something or 50 something, and your desired age range is 19 - 25, we are NOT A MATCH (so gross). If you are a big Buffet or Grateful Dead fan, we are probably not a match. If you think tattoos are the best way to memorialize something, play pool and darts at the bar frequently, and like super loud engines, we are not a match.If you get ridiculously angry about bad drivers, gluten-free diets, or a homeless guy asking for money, we are not a match. If you yell at people, belittle people, or don't think about ways to help people who are suffering, we are not a match. If you are a loud, "look at me and all my shiny stuff" type of guy, we are not a match; in fact, you might drive something like a Subaru, a nice black pickup, or a Jeep. If you can't envision yourself ever going to a Civil War reenactment, browsing for hours at B&N, swaying gently in a Pawley's Island hammock on a sunny fall day with me, having a picnic at a local winery, going hiking, eating lobster on a dock in New England, we are probably not a match. So... am I picky? Sure. Isn't everyone? I definitely don't want to waste anyone's time--including my own! I am a veteran high school English teacher (and department supervisor) in downtown Manassas. People who know me would describe me as fun, playful, hard-working, smart, caring, funny, and attractive. I am also the proud mama of two adorable young girls and an adult son (active duty special forces). I am patriotic and appreciate others who understand the sacrifices families are making so we can live the way we do here in the U.S. Although I am outgoing when I am out with friends, I also have a serious side and really enjoy quiet nights at home [I need peace and quiet to "recharge"; inane, pointless chatter drives me crazy!] I have high standards for myself and the people I'm around and am big on following through and honesty! I AM NOT A SUPER-MOM or SUPER-MODEL or SUPER-triathlete (I will cheer you on if you are). Seemingly, there is NO ONE on this site who would admit that sometimes, they just want to relax; I sometimes do. I am a Christian and believe that life is NOT about accumulating wealth but cultivating loving, giving relationships. I accept differences in points of view but am guessing that my match and I would likely share some core values. Stimulating conversation is KEY in my attraction to a person. THE MOST IMPORTANT CHARACTERISTIC FOR MY "MATCH" IS BEING A TRULY GOOD PERSON!!! (good does NOT mean "perfect") I, too, am a work in progress. I DO know, though, that I am looking for someone I will be crazy about because he will inspire me to be a better person---he will make others feel happy to be in the same room with him, he loves and has fun around kids (whether they are his or are strangers). My match will have a meaningful career that he will love talking to me about; he is one of the best at what he does. He will appreciate sarcasm and most of all, he will have to laugh at my jokes (lame or not) and enjoy listening to stories about my job/students/education/ideas, etc... In turn, I will love watching and listening to him tell his stories. I AM excited about meeting and having fun getting to know a GOOD man who is looking potentially to build a committed relationship. Looking forward to meeting the "right one." Would love to meet for a coffee or a drink if it sounds like we'd click. Holding out for the one who can't wait to meet me!

Her interests

Camping , Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Movies/Videos , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Religion/Spiritual , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering , Watching sports , Wine tasting

Sports & exercise

Aerobics, Cycling, Dancing, Running, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Cats

We have a super entertaining cat named Buster (AKA Buster Brown, Bustuh-MOVE!, and Filibuster) and recently added our baby, Harper Pearl.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Trummer's Wine and Coffee Bar; any good book store, local wineries, a nice trail


George Mason University, Fairfax, VA

Favorite things

sarcasm, HGTV; cooking together; a good workout, sleeping in, the Lamb Center, the mountains, good people, doing absolutely nothing with someone I'm crazy about, intelligent conversation, lobster roll off the dock, FCC

For fun

a nice hike, going out to dinner or drinks w/friends, the theater, traveling, cuddling on the couch w/ a good movie, doing a home improvement project, cooking a meal together, working out, being goofy, reading, wine tasting, art gallery

Last read

Red Badge of Courage, The Great Gatsby, and Of Mice and Men (for work)

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'4" (162cms) 5'8" (172cms) to 6'5" (195cms)
Body type: Athletic and toned Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes: Green Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair: Light brown Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Grey
Smoke: No Way No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink: Social Drinker Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation: Education / Teacher / Professor No preference
teach junior and senior English
Income: $50,001 to $75,000 $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship: Divorced Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids: Yes, and they live at home (2) Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids Definitely, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian White / Caucasian
am adopted but am guessing that I am probably part Irish or Welsh--am looking forward to finding this out one day
Faith: Christian / Protestant Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
I attend Fairfax Community Church --a powerful, nourishing, non-denominational church
Languages: English English
Education: Graduate degree Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral
BA in English, Masters in Education
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