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Have kids:
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
5'6" (167cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
Excited to meet new people

In her own words

You are a Divine incarnation. I will expect you to be my best friend through good and bad. I will stand by you, come what may. You will be the center of my universe. Love is a behavior, not a feeling. It is understanding that life is not about us as individuals, but about our part in the whole. Marriage taught me that the only quality that matters in a partner is his character. I have both strong extrovert and introvert tendencies (ENFP). Whether at work or socially, I do not compete, nor compare myself to others, yet I am ambitious. I do feel shown up by Marissa Mayer, who's the same age as me. My greatest joy is ballet, followed by gangsta rap. Ballet connects me to the community. I contemplate dedicating my life to it. I see 13 live performances a year (you should come, but I won't insist). I am a decent cook, but wish I were more confident for entertaining. I can accommodate special diets (vegan, paleo, gluten-free). As the younger sister of brothers, I prefer the company of males. My father and brothers defy every stereotype I ever heard in awesome ways. What seals the envelope around my heart is a man who is willing to be himself no matter how unconventional or un-macho he may be perceived. Gender associations are inventions of the mind. My match is consciously aware of what he is feeling and speaks his mind. He considers the implications of his choices on others. He treats others fairly, even when it's not to his own advantage. He'll tell me the truth, even when it's hard, and trusts me to take him as he is. My match exercises integrity with money. He thinks ahead and protects me. While it's natural for me to lead, he habitually takes responsibility and looks out for me. He doesn't play the younger brother. He desires my companionship and is affectionate. I strongly prefer a man who wants to be a father, to whom this role is important. It's probably because my dad was an extremely involved parent, trying to outdo my mother. Ironically, I don't want to bear children, but one can have it both ways. I am open to step- or foster-parenting or to adopting. You're children are blessings. They come first. If you wish to father biological children, I support you. It's a beautiful thing. How you treat your ex-wife or baby-mamma says everything about you. If she loses, I cannot win. When it comes to potentially sharing a life together, I must address this. My parents taught us to have healthy attitudes about sexuality. It was not a taboo subject; they specifically told us to see it in a positive, sacred way. We were never to take it lightly or casually: sharing one's body is sharing one's spirit. I find the commercialization of sex to be troubling (porn, stripping, prostitution). It's not a judgment about fornication. It's about human dignity. I cannot stand by a man who implicitly supports human trafficking. The definition of attractive is straight shoulders. A man who never works out looks better than one who overdoes it. I tend to like Jewish guys with large features. If I am attracted to a man, it doesn't matter if he's losing his hair or if he's heavyset (or both). My body is like Witney Carson's, which has only recently been considered attractive. I've always been medium build, but stocky and muscular. I love to exercise and desire more of it than I get. What did your parents do right in raising you? What should they have done differently?

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I like Cats, Dogs, Fish, Horses

My dear cat of 14 years passed away on 12/24/2015. She had the clingy personality of a dog. Constantly in my arms.

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Favorite hot spots

I'm not pretentious about where to go. I avoid crowds. Love to visit an art or science museum, aquarium, planetarium, botanical garden. Love cathedrals (especially old or Catholic); just elated to go inside. I like to dine out but miss Northern Cali.


University of Virginia, Charlottesville, VA

Favorite things

19th Century melancholy. Aroma of home cooking. An insanely passionate kiss. The geriatric vibe upon early arrival at Kennedy Ctr. Honeysuckle blooming. A man who cooks, washes dishes and puts the seat down. An infant's bliss. DMX. Dancers in white.

For fun

I go to the ballet and to concerts. I love to spend time alone, but if I have a boyfriend, I swap that time to be with him. I am delighted to hang out with you and your kids playing board games or whatever.

Last read

Sue Frederick's "I See Your Soul Mate," (NOT into psychics) Esther Hicks' "Ask, and It Is Given," Jose Silva, "The Silva Method," Thich Nhat Hanh's "How to Love," "Fidelity: How to Create a Loving Relationship That Lasts," "The Art of Communicating."

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'6" (167cms) 3'0" (91cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds No preference
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No preference
Drink: Never No preference
Occupation: Sales / Marketing No preference
There many things I would like to achieve professionally that are not yet fulfilled. I always wanted a career and to start a successful business. My upbringing didn't prepare me well. I wish I had an MBA for the know-how it would provide.
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
I thought the word cracka was based on a reference to saltines. For some reason, everyone expects me to speak Spanish. I'm just a wasp. Sorry.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
My dad is an ordained Presbyterian minister. My parents lacked a shred of ambition for us. Their only focus was that we become good Christians. I am a member of all faiths, but the Presbyterian Church is incredibly cool (except for its Pro-Choicers).
Languages: English, French, German, Italian No preference
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Majored in Economics French. Minored in Italian German.
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