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40 year old woman | Fairfax, VA, United States | Seeking men 34-42 within 30 miles

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Have kids:
Wants kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
White / Caucasian
Body type:
A few extra pounds
5'6" (167cms)
Christian / Protestant
No Way
No one has ever become poor by giving." Anne Frank

In her own words

You are a blessed being. You are enough. I will expect you to be my best friend and to step up to help me often. You may need to encourage me about work, advise me on hardware things, listen empathetically or just hold me. I am outgoing, but a loner. I tend to get overwhelmed. As the younger sister of brothers, I prefer the company of males. Even so, I have a ways to go in empathizing with male fears and struggles. Whether at work or socially, I do not compete, nor compare myself to others, yet I am ambitious. My greatest joy is ballet, followed by gangsta rap. If I were in a music video, I would be the woman with the watering can in Coldplay's Trouble video. The virtue I always lacked is patience. I am very point-A-to-point-B whether driving or getting to know someone. Studying Buddhist teachings on detachment, no-self and acceptance of others has changed me. I am not even bothered by actions that would have upset me before. The capacity to be understanding, good-natured and loving is liberating. Commitment means doing whatever it takes to make a relationship work. When I was married, we lived in California, where we barely navigated the cost of living. When a promotion opportunity came up for me, it was in Northern Virginia. My spouse refused to relocate, even for more income, lower real estate and to accommodate me as breadwinner. I would have willingly relocated for him (anywhere) if the practical or personal need arose. In a union, it's what's best for the team, not the individual. Your partner's needs and family become your own. My match has a strong sense of personal honor. He considers the implications of his choices on others. He treats others fairly. He is consciously aware of what he is feeling and speaks his mind. My match works harder than most people and plans for his financial future. He exercises integrity with money. He tends to look out for me as an older brother would, rather than expecting me to be the responsible one. He is aware of his surroundings and protects me. He is affectionate. He habitually embraces me, touches my hair and puts his arm around me. He desires my companionship. Spending time together doesn't necessarily mean interacting; it can be doing different things in the same space. The ideal is feeling that I have my own space even with the other person present. Our willingness to date single parents influences whether people choose life. I am open to becoming a step- or foster-parent or to adopting a child, but I don't want to have my own children. One of my brothers is adopted; he's the only family member I can stand. Your children come first; they are not a dating liability. The kind of father you are says everything about you (paying child support is not optional). I care enormously how you treat your ex. I'll wear her shoes. If you want to father biological children, I support you. I admire men who have the courage to be themselves. My brother loves tropical styles and wears bright pink all the time. My worst fault is being blunt and direct, so I am charmed by the guy who is a master of subtlety. It is difficult for me to maintain a lot of eye contact (I feel invaded by it), which is a hindrance to offline dating. My nature is assertive, but never aggressive. The definition of attractive is straight shoulders, which I can spot from far off. He tends to have large features and full lips. If I am attracted to a man, it doesn't matter if he's losing his hair or if he's heavyset. Asian men up to 46 years old. Everyone else 42. My body is like that of Shakira or Jennifer Lopez. Like a track star, I have large quadriceps, hamstrings, glutes and calves. I love to exercise but don't always find that balance. I'm not giving up. What are the ages of your brothers and sisters, if any?

Her interests

Coffee and conversation , Cooking , Dining out , Hobbies and crafts , Museums and art , Music and concerts , Exploring new areas , Nightclubs/Dancing , Performing arts , Religion/Spiritual , Shopping/Antiques , Travel/Sightseeing , Volunteering

Sports & exercise

Basketball, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Other types of exercise, Running, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga

I exercise 3-4 times per week.




I have Cats

I like Dogs, Fish, Horses

1 black cat.

Political views


Favorite hot spots

Cathedrals, Museums, Planetariums. Four Shabby Chicks. Love, Charley. Boating on the Potomac. Adventuresome, but not outdoorsy. If there aren't flushing toilets, count me out (camping, fairs, inaugurations).


University of Virginia, Charlottesville, VA

Favorite things

Ballet. Repose in freshly washed sheets. Wool mittens. Long, white tutus. Homemade ethnic dishes. A pristine home. Biking on Summer evenings. Tennis. Dinosaurs. Astronomy. Hip-hop, Latin, Indian dance. French Gangsta Rap. Hugo Boss cologne.

For fun

I read, take dance lessons and sew. I enjoy having people over or going out in small groups, but I'm not as social as most people. I need time alone daily. Going out, I prefer to do something physical like dancing, bowling, mini-golfing or skating.

Last read

Abraham-Hicks , "Ask, and It Is Given," Jose Silva, "The Silva Method," Thich Nhat Hanh's "How to Love," "Fidelity: How to Create a Loving Relationship That Lasts" & "The Art of Communicating."

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  Her What she is looking for
Height: 5'6" (167cms) 3'0" (91cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type: A few extra pounds No preference
Eyes: Brown No preference
Hair: Dark brown No preference
Smoke: No Way No preference
Drink: Never No preference
Occupation: Sales / Marketing No preference
I aspire to be like Elizabeth Holmes or Maria Pereira. As an entrepreneur, I would invent a contraception that is 100% effective and safe, to end abortion (half of US pregnancies are accidents!). What if men had total control of pregnancy avoidance?
Income: $100,001 to $150,000 No preference
Relationship: Divorced No preference
Have kids: No No preference
Wants kids: No, but it's OK if my partner has kids No preference
Ethnicity: White / Caucasian No preference
I thought the word cracka was based on a reference to saltines.
Faith: Christian / Protestant Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Buddhism is teaching me to practice non-judgement, to offer compassion and loving kindness instead. Awareness of thought patterns helps you to catch negative (vengeance, greed, resentment) and replace them with good (patience, respect, goodwill).
Languages: English, French, German, Italian No preference
Education: Bachelors degree No preference
Majored in Economics French. Minored in Italian German.
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